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wounded~angel's apology
May 23, 2005
12:23 am
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id like to say sorry to any body who was offended by my language or my bitter attitude please forgive me
im sorry for being rude
im sorry i was mean to you exotic flower can you all please forgive me?

May 23, 2005
12:33 am
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ok, I'll be the first to say I forgive you!!! I know exotic is sleeping right now, angel (she was really sad and crying today). She is a really nice person and I know she is going to really appreciate you being so brave and kind and apologizing. And I know your words are going to put a BIG smile on her face when she sees this in the morning.

You know, it takes a really a big person to say I am sorry. So I want you to know that I am really proud of you!!!

((((((wounded~angel))))))

May 23, 2005
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Angel:

I think it shows real maturity to come and post an apology.

well done honey. 🙂

May 23, 2005
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I have been reading the previous posts--Wounded angel the apology was very sweet and seems straight from the heart. 🙂

May 23, 2005
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ef,

I saw you were on and didn't know if you would catch this, so just bumping it up for you.

May 23, 2005
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Sorry, I'm still a bit fuzzy brained, my daughter got me up at 5am...ah, teething!

Well, Wounded Angel, that is so very sweet of you. And it is hard to appologize, I know. It means a lot to me that ou wanted to see that I forgive you, and it really DID put a big smile on my face!

I know that when you are upset it is hard to feel like other people are telling you what to do. I hope that you are feeling better now. I have been VERY mean to people when I was hurt before, I understand why it happens. I hope you know that I was not angry at you, I just did not know what to do so I thought it was no good to keep talking about it if it was making you angry just then. Thank you so much for appologizing, it really is mature of you and thoughtful.

(((((((((Wounded~angel)))))))))))

May 24, 2005
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wounded~angel, I don't see where an apology is needed. I read the whole thread and was not in the least bit offened. You just sounded very honest and hurt to me. I don't see anything wrong with that. I thinkl it's O.K. to say how you see your parents. That's part of the picture, that's part of your truth. I don' think you need to censor yourself here.

May 24, 2005
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kathy, wounded angel is 12 years old, and I am 25. I asked her to try speaking differently because it made ME uncomfortable as an adult not to, I would be uncomfortable with the charactor of those adults, which in this case was my right to feel and to talk to her about. Also, as a mother, regardless of the situation I would not want my daughter speaking in a very aggressive fashion like that to adults if they where not concerned. Angel clearly felt herself that it was something she wanted to appologize for, and I think that is where an appology is needed. I never asked for one, nor did anyone else, I was simply uncomfortable with the hostile feel from someone younger and stepped back from the situations, others who where comfortable did not.

I am glad to hear that none of it made you uncofortable, it is so important to know your own comfort zone!

May 25, 2005
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exotic, I am 55 years old and don't have any children. I suspected because you have a child is why you were offended. I still believe that it is very important that a child speaks her truth. I'm guessing your child would not talk like that about you because you are a better parent. I think wounded~angel apoligized because she was made to feel bad and feel rejected because of what you said. How she sees her parents is avery important part of the picture.

May 25, 2005
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kathygy, I do not agree that wounded angel apologized because she was MADE to feel bad. She was made aware that her actions affected others, which is an important realization in a shared space such as this.

ef set her boundaries. They are, apparently, different from yours, but such is life.

May 25, 2005
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This makes me think that wounded~angel's truth pushed a button in you. I think its wrong to censor her. She needs to speak her truth. I imagine at home she is shut up all the time. She needs to be heard.

May 25, 2005
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kathygy, I would love to hear wounded angels truth, I was asking to. And I think it is important to see children speak their own mind, certainly, it is forever the nature of adults to do it for them as I see it here. At any rate, what makes one person uncomfortable may not make another feel the same way, it is a matter different for everyone. Clearly this strikes a very sore note with you, I am sorry to see that it has upset you so much. I hope you feel better.

I believe I read that wounded angels mother would prefer that she not come back to this site until she has 'more social skills', which I took to mean until she is older and able to communicate with adults in like fashion. I am sure she was perfectly safe here, but again it is every persons right to assert their own comfort level, and as a mother I can certainly see her concerns, as wonderful as this site is. She does not know us, saw strong language used by her daughter, and saw strangers giving advice (myself along with others). However well meaning, it was not ok with her, so I suppose we can lay this to rest.

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