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Would a marriage be blessed by GOD if your spouse is a christine but you are not?
September 19, 2001
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We registered last year but we have not perform our formal wedding (e.g church wedding) yet. My spouse is a christine but I am not. He is now see another girl (She knows he is married and I guess she is a christine too)
His mother is telling me that they will not be blessed becaues their relationship is wrong and things like GOD has put us together, HE will bring us back again, etc. However, how would I know I am the chosen one by GOD for him, maybe she is the one GOD has chosen for him? Maybe it is GOD's plan that we shld be apart? I am very confused.
However, I know of 1 thing, that is I am willing to forgive and forget if he ever come back because I love me very much.

September 19, 2001
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Hi, it is me again. Actually my login name shld be "Same", but I dont know why it is showing "Larsen". Whoever is "Larsen", I am sorry that I have "unintentionally" used your name.

September 19, 2001
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Yes! It says in the bible "He who finds a wife finds a good thing." and if your spouse isn't saved to try and get them to the point where they are, but if it fails keep your own religion. So I say, yes GOD joined u 2 together, u are his from God.

September 20, 2001
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It is your choice but on the other hand you would encounter a number of difficulties as your spouse does not share the same faith. How are you going to pray together? How about attending church? How are you going to bring up your children? The Bible had clearly said do not be unequally yoke. I do not know whether the marriage will be blessed but I do know that the above will happened.

September 20, 2001
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Hi YC Sheng,

I don't mind praying with him. I dun mind attending church with him and I want our children (If we ever have any) to follow their father. This has been my/our plan even before we married. In fact, I am the one encourage him to go to church. I dun want to accept GOD just to trade for anything. I wan to accept GOD when I am really to accept GOD so that I am able to look up to GOD and say, "Yes, I accept GOD because I want to and not because other people want me to or because I want something as a trading." Anyway, thanks for responding to my query.

September 20, 2001
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Same....um, you're confused??? I'M confused just reading this. So - whyyyyyy are you even considering this person as a mate when he is with another woman? With all this christian stuff out of the way for a minute...(btw, I am a Christian) but obviously, his heart is not with you - and anything you could do to get him back would backfire on you eventually. If he has doubts enough that send him off to another woman - then why oh why - would you EVEN consider being with him????

Sorry if I sound harsh, but this mindset just amazes me with women. Eating dirt isn't one of my best talents. But, I can assure you - he'd have a whole load of it in his face about right now, if it were me. So, do you live in the south, just curious?

And I can assure you that if you forgive and forget and he comes back to you someday - you haven't seen pain yet....like you will have down the road with him.

He either loves you or he doesn't. Plain, pure and simple. If he's with another woman - he doesn't. Period.

September 24, 2001
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Ladeska,

My logical self told me exactly the same thing your said here. However, my emotional self still love him too much to leave him. I dont know. I am still confused.

September 24, 2001
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Your logical self is the one to listen to. Emotions will tie you to the train tracks. You're obviously feeding on something here that is keeping you where you are. Until you identify that and are willing to own up to it - you're probably going to have to go down the long, hard road of pain in order to learn anything. But, that's human nature. We learn by doing, or not doing - as the case may be. You're choosing your confusion, so whatever bad happens as a result of all this will be of your doing.

You know what to do, you're just choosing not to do it. All this in the name of love? Quite the contrary.

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