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worried dad!!
May 5, 2005
11:12 pm
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ballinMo23
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hey!well im 14 yearz old n ima female.my teammate is a 15 year old gurl, the one i messed around with.i live in tha baaaaay areaa!dats up in cali.im ina EXTREMELY urban environment.the league i play for iz a basketball league n we travel a lot to places like reno for example.its not part of my skool its just a traveling team that starts in the spring n ends in august.im trippin man.i feel guilty, i wanna call my coach n apologize but then again i didnt do anything wrong.uno?everytime i think about it my stomach hurts my head hurts my body aches its just really bad n i dont know what 2 do.im really frusterated rite now wit all dis.plz help me

May 5, 2005
11:21 pm
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B-MO,

Calm yourself down, girl. Perhaps 14 is a bit young to be gettin' down - and I betcha that will be their main concern. The fact that it was another chick - hopefully they'll be cool with that.

As for breaking the coach's rules - hey, what's more important, b-ball or you, as a growing learning human being?

I hope so much that they express love and caring for your life and womanhood, and that they don't focus just on the rules of the game. I can understand the rules, and if you have to step off, go with no regrets, girl - what's important here is that you are finding yourself, and we all need to do that at some point.

So, though I know I can't offer the best advice - I'm thinking of you - stand by who you are, and try to be calm. There will always be a team to play for - just make sure you are loyal to your own self first!

(((((B-MO)))))

May 5, 2005
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Hey MO:

I know you are scared. When you do things that you told the coach you would not then there are consequences. Has he called your mom yet? Does she know about your orientation? You don't have to answer if you don't want. It's ok.

I wanted to say that I think it admirable that you want to call your coach and apologize. You did do something wrong didn't you? I thought you and the coach agreed you would not do anything w/ another while you were gone. If I am wrong let me know.

I want nothing but the best for you. At age 14 you have so much time to check things out and make decisions. Don't get in a hurry coz you can't got it back later.

Sleep on it tonight. Tomorrow is a new day. Make your decision to call or not when you have rested up and can think clearly.

Best to ya.

May 5, 2005
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awww thank u so much yall!i luv u guys so much.thank u so much

May 6, 2005
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MamaC is right in that you do have lots of time to get into sexuality, and no need to rush. On the other hand I do not see anything morally wrong with what you did. You broke a rule that is pretty stupid and maybe illegal. It's a violation of privacy.

Most American Parents WILL freak out to find out that their 14 year old daughter 1) had sex and 2) with another girl.

Hey, what is the coache's problem, anyway?

May 6, 2005
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i just kissed her!!whats the big deal!?!wowww my coach is officially RETARDED.damn.kissing a girl isnt wrong at all.maybe if i did more stuff with her it would be but not kissing.i dont get him.i dont understand.i sent him an email.lemme tell u guys what i said:"wassup Coach Rae dis monica!im guessin u know about what went down up in reno n i jus wanted 2 apologize for disobeyin what u had told us.i really wasnt plannin on nething 2 happen u no i jus got caught up in the moment n wasnt usin my head at that time.im willin to face the consequences for my action n u got ma word that it wont happen again.hope 2 be hearing bak from u"..was that good?

May 6, 2005
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ballinMo23,

Good email, content wise. Hopefully your spelling was a little better, though. šŸ™‚

Well, technically, you did not break the rule at all then. There is a difference between kissing and having sex.

May 6, 2005
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he hasnt emailed me back yet šŸ™

May 6, 2005
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hey b-mo,

Just wanted to say good luck and I was thinking about you.

2b

May 6, 2005
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awwwthank u so much i luv uguyz

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