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Worried About My Bother About Sex!
December 14, 2002
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The other night I got into a big fight with my brother. People about 6 months ago we went on holidays and my brother he kept writing in this book so one day I had a look and I was really sick and sex fingering people and having sex and stuff like. I did nothing about it About 2 months ago my teenage magazines were gone well I fond them in my brothers room with the book well he was cutting out the pics and putting them in and making stores about girl frineds and him having sex and things like that and they were really graphic and detailed pieces of writing and I confronted him because it was worrying me and see what was going on can we historical and he said stuff to me and everything like you would when you are shocked well he said that he was paying back his friends and writing about what stuff in his book I told him not to go it again and everything but I left it as that well I saw the book again and this time I found porn pictures and the stories are still happening and Ben was on the phone when i found them and he know what was going because I think i have wrote it on AAC before, well I told him what it said and he said that you need to confront him again well he came home and I did and he went crazy at me and said what were you doing in my room and that he slapped me and at this time my parents weren’t home because they were working and so I had to deal with it and he through things at me and then he called me names and he know that Ben knew about it and my brother doesn’t like Ben at all. He was threatening me he was going to tell all his friends about all my problems like my powers and things like that. Still he was throughing chairs at me and I was so upset I was crying and I didn’t know what to do. He was angry with me and he has threatened me with a knife before and a cricket bat and that is what I was worried about. I was crying because I didn’t want his friends to know about me and I was saying to myself don’t cut myself and in the end I didn’t. I called Ben and I couldn’t get him I tried and tried until I got him. When I was in tears and then he said carm down, and I told him what happened and he said you need to talk to him and talk but don’t hit or anything and just talk not yell. I told him that he was going to tell about my powers and Ben said he wont trust me and I said Ben you don’t know my brother like i do and he said your right but I know he wont promise me ok I said ok and then I said can you be on the phone when we talk and he said no this is to do with you and your brother not me and I said I and he said be brave I said ok. Well I talked to him and we worked it out and he said that he is having dreams about that but I dont know if that is an excuse like when he said about he was paying back a friend I don’t know what to believe. Well about 2 hours later Ben called and he said I had to call you because I was worried about you and I said I’m ok. I told him and then he said you will need your brother him life you need to have a good relationship with him because you will need each other if something goes wrong. I said yeah, he was so nice and caring and he was there when I needed him and I was so close I telling Ben I love him and I want to go out with him but I didn’t. I don’t know what to do Blondie if you were in my persiton what would you do? Because I dont know what to do, but I proud even though I was in a tough situation I didn’t cut myself because I thought of you and people who care for me.

What do you think about this? And what should I do?

Love you always Jess xoxoxox

December 14, 2002
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What powers are you talking about? just really curious.

Also, from my perspective, i don't think your brother has a problem with the porn and all, he's young so please don't let it bother you. It's a growing thing, all guys go through it, even some girls at different ages.

P.S. I'm Glad you didn't cut yourself too!

December 14, 2002
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Jess for TLC, I don't really know much about you and your brother or how old you both are. It sounds like you are trying to take care of your brother. Where are your parents? They didn't notice him writing in his book all the time?

Is Ben the only friend you have to call? If your brother doesn't like him... did you do this as an excuse to talk to Ben or to get back at your brother? I remember an incident where someone faked a suicide and got banned from this site. I am assuming this is Ben.

You wondered what Blondie would do in your position? Blondie was banned from this site because of pornography.
I was leaning on Blondie before this episode. I wouldn't trust her especially in this matter.

Talk to me. I'll be us about what you are feeling. We will be here for you. I am a mother, a grandmother, and feel like you need someone to be there for you.

December 14, 2002
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I meant tell us not Ill be us.....

December 17, 2002
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Nattie,
the powers thing is really complicated but I will briefly tell you I use to have powers and I could focus my eyes on something and I could think it and I have a master who would day your wish is my command and it would happened and I put spells on people and there was the bad side of powers called Sythreast and when is would rain or storm that was him and some of my friends are from him so I have to be very careful. And the good side of powers which im on are Jehovah and 2 of my friends are on my side. And I have a master as I said before his name is Saylem and last year I needed help and I had to tell someone. I had to tell them about my powers and stuff and I couldn’t tell anyone about spells and stuff and if I did there was only 24 hours with powers left and my master I lost my powers for a while and then my mater came back because Jehovah new I would survive and now he is with my all the time but I don’t have no powers or contact with someone my other people I talked to. Its really compacted it’s really hard to explain and it goes into more detail by that too. So you think I shoulnd worry about pictures but still I don’t think he should write that. And I don’t think I will be cutting myself again it was too hurtful and I hurt a lot of people around me too. Thank you for your help. Bye love you always Jess xoxoxo

Mj,
My parents work they run a business together and I had a problem with my parents because of a letter I gave them and a response I got and they didn’t understand and they thought I was attention seeking and it really hurt me a lot and since then I don’t talk to my parents because I’m afraid of what they will say its like a barrier that I cant brake but I’m seeing someone for that. And I’m almost 15 and my brother is 12 years old. And I’m really only looking out for him. See since my partents work and they don’t see it but I walk in on him in the night time when he is writing it. Ben is not the only friend I could have called but he was on the phone when I was reading the book and he said I should talk to him about it and the reason why I called Ben back is because he knows what was going on. No it wasn’t to get back at my brother by calling be. Ben is a person that I really love a lot and he is my ex and he is really supportive to me and everything and he knows what goes on with me. Well that story about the suicide thing well that is Ben who got banned from this site. I hope I here form you soon bye love you always Jess xoxoxo

December 17, 2002
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Hi Jess, Thanks for answering some of the questions I had. Today I am feeling less confident in my ability to offer advice. Just know that I care about you and wish that you could learn to communicate with your brother and parents better. It helps to use "I" statements. I feel _____ about _______. That way you are talking about your feelings. Yesterday I read the Poem in the CODA section about Listening.
I can listen today and just be there for you.

December 22, 2002
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babe that is ok you cant help me every time you get on here. any way i have being at a friends house i counls stand the stress and we got pissed with the guy i like and the guy she like and we has so much fun. and i did it the next night too. it gave me a break as well. buyt as soon as i came bak my brother and i started fighting but wheni came back i'm always moody to and i needed a sleep too. the guy i like said to me you need to get along woth your brother beucase you will need him in life to suprot you and erything and he is right. but at the mooment it is so hard. well should i just forget about his sex thing and i sopse it a guy thing growing up. should i? love you always Jess xoxox

December 23, 2002
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i thought about it and i told my counselor and she said that i sholud forget it and guys go through that kind of stuff and it is something that i have to exept weather i like it or not and i wouldnt like him goign through my dirary. and it wasnt like it was sitting out so i could see so i will forget about it.

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