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Worried about hubby
October 14, 2006
6:25 pm
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Randomwomen2
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It seems like my husband has sank into a deep depression. He has become more angry and closed off. I am so worried about him cause He wont talk to me about it and its really taking a toll on him and our family. I just dont know what I can do to help. Does anyone have any advice?

October 14, 2006
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i've been in a deep depression before ... still am ... the best thing you can do for him is be there ... without question ... you'll never know when ... but there will be times that that he absolutely needs you ... just BE there ... in person, by phone ... whatever ... just BE there ... because he's finally able to reach out to you ...

October 14, 2006
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I am trying. He has this tuff guy persona that he hides behind. I am actualy thinking about leaving a heartfelt letter for him on the computer since he always goes on before he goes to bed and I will already be in bed. Just to let him know that I am thinking about him and worried about him. Just to let him know that I am here to talk to. Cause I feel like he is playing this tuff guy for my sake cause Im 7 months pregnant and it hasnt been an easy pregnancy. What he doesnt realize is by him keeping it in that it is actualy hurting us. I think I just need to be honest with how I feel in a very simpathitic way. I am not a harsh person so I think that I can do this and it will give him an window of opertunity to talk with out feeling ockward about bringing it up. If he so chooses at the very least it will show him that I am here any time he wants to talk.

October 14, 2006
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I like your idea about a letter. That way he can hold on to it and anytime he forgets that you are there for him he can reread it. It is also something he can read in private and contemplate without any pressure and without any obligation to do anything about it if he doesn't want to.

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