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Women /Men who Love too Much!
November 6, 2007
12:15 am
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I did't know thet loving too much would be toxic but it is!
I WAsabi an a toxic realationship addict!
I'm working on Recocery & it's tuff!
I took a sleep aid & it's kicken in!
I can' typ now
*(&%^$**) that;sit!

Not even what I wanted to say mor in the sain AM!!!!!
wasabi

November 6, 2007
6:43 am
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wasabi.....hope you are feeling a lil' better 2day, and got some good well needed sleep.......and the book Women who love too much, describes me to a t!!! but taking the necessary steps helps you to "not love so much" so to speak,. Having balance in your life, helping yourself out and your needs, having hobbies, work, play, and then having a relationship, without keeping that relationship as your main focus....all helps...and yes, I am rambling now....time to go.

November 6, 2007
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wasabi - sounds like a lightbulb went off for you!

I found the women who love too much book MUCH more enlightening than codep no more....not sure why - but it really spoke to me more than codep no more.

that being said - once I "understood" what was going on - the codep no more book DID help on "what next" and how to recover.

for me - understanding was much more beneficial to my recovery than having the tools - cuz I just didn't get why I needed them.

everybody is different - but that's why I urge everyone to read both books - cuz one may speak louder than the other for some people.

November 6, 2007
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My brain is not as wiped as last night but I did have a full day!
Dealing with my mentaly ill son being discharged from the hospital was exusting!(all day with him yeeek)
I ended up checking him into a hotel becuase he had no where to go & I can not bring him home........crazyness!

I think this book is better for ME because ..........well it's all about adicted to love!
Like the song Victim of Love by the Egles!
"We know how to play so well!"
Sadley this was my favorite song when I was a teen & I never even had a REAL boy friend yet!
I'm getting it for the first time!
I read co-dep. books from Melody...
and it was good but Robin's book wow hits it on the head!
There where a few pages on workaholic men & how it affects there wives........oh man I cried like a baby it was so my life!
It said it's ok to have your own life if he is too busy with his .....get a life! duh! and have no gilt Stop nagging him & go have fun! Wow OK! but my husband sulks if I go & do stuff when he is working ALL the time 6 -7 days week....we went to dinner the other night, he took 5 buis. calls during our could of been romantic dinner at a water front rest. at sun down! I just wanted to walk out! I finally got up & went to the bathroom when he took another call ..........give me a break! or even if I'm in the yard with my horses he will say oh all you do is play with your fn animals!

Well I just can't get enought of this book & it's plan for Recovery!
I'm hooked ! Yes I'm a reocerving TOXIC Relationship JUNKY!
Please help me !
Wasabi
Thanks for your support you all are part of my recovery team!
Thank you so much for responding to my crap!
W*

ps well tomorrow I'm JUST going to play with my FN animals!

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