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will life go on ??
April 1, 2007
11:15 pm
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I had a counsellor that helped me so much
That I thought of her as a friend ,
Now she is gone . She has a police order to stop me from seeing her .

How can I go on knowing the person that helped me the most hates me enough to put the police onto me ??
Everything we worked on is coming undone .
All I want to do is die .
My wife and kids do not understand how someone can lose control like i have .
My doctor has me on effexor 300mg a day
to feel even close to right i have to double that .Why should I go on I am only going to hurt some one else at this rate ?

April 2, 2007
7:52 am
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hey Tanker, i guess your therapist had a good reason for what she did? Your story is a little vague on details though. This is a good place to vent if you want to share more.
Being consistent with your prescribed medication and dosages is very important. Letting your doctor know how you are doing might help. Just some thoughts...hang in there.

April 2, 2007
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I know the details...and she may NOT hate you...but more that she is afraid of your persistent attempts to get in touch with her.

By law, when someone tells you to stay away and you don't...it's stalking.

I understand that you feel you NEED her, but for her own reasons, she doesn't feel safe.

I don't know if she outright hates you, but more that you had a professional relationship, and it had to end because it crossed boundaries. And you continue to cross those boundaries, and she isn't tolerating it.

Yes, she made the mistake of letting you cross them...but that doesn't mean she has to continue like that. She and her bosses asked you to stop contacting and you didn't. That is a boundary.

Work with your new therapist and explain that the meds aren't helping, perhaps a different one is needed. I know that effexor didn't help me at all.

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