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Why won't she return my call
June 25, 2004
8:10 am
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trot
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The girl that I was seeing told me Wednesday evening that the relationship was going to fast for her. She said that she still liked me but that she could'nt do it like we were. She went out to dinner with her son and a girlfriend and said she would call me when she got home. She never called. We were supposed to have lunch today before she went out of town with her girlfriends for the weekend. I tried to call her last night and left a message explaining why I called and she never called back. I can understand if she doesn't want to see me anymore but to not even want to talk to me. I don't get that. We got along great and nothing was ever said to warrant her not even wanting to speak to me. What should I do?

June 25, 2004
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Sometimes we all need a little space, and when things are moving to fast in our lives we get scared and we run like frightened little rabbits. Give her some space and time. Find something to keep your mind from dwelling on the hurt. Things will fall where they will and we can't control our destiny, that's God's job, we just have the free will to make the decision on when. Think positive trout, it will all work out. Good luck.

June 25, 2004
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trot-

By no means am I defending this girl, but I will tell you, when I am not sure about a situation or how to handle it- I kind of run from it. I am ashamed to admit it, but I am guilty of doing what she is doing. It could be that it is not that she doesnt want to talk to you, she just doesnt know what to say. If she is doing that, I would give her a day or two and not call her- the more pressure she feels to talk to you, the more she may back away. Maybe if you do that, it will give her alittle time to get her thoughts on the situation together and then she will be ready to talk to you. I know that has worked with me.

June 25, 2004
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Trot, unfort she didn't call for her own reasons, who knows maybe she forgot, maybe she was running away from it all, either way you can't control this situation....its up to her now to call you, please stay busy
and try not to worrry so much, as fairy99 said think positive, things will somehow work out!

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