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Why is life so hard/unfair!!!
November 8, 2006
9:02 pm
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armyleo
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I guess I'm not looking for responses, I just want to VENT, VENT,VENT!!!!

Why is it that so many people just trying to better themselves, keep getting squashed, and keep having pain thrown at them???

Why are there so many, damn Lucifers,and scum ponds in this world...

Why is it that hurts that are cause by others year and years, ago, come flaring up like it was just yesterday...To only choke a person, once again...

Damn it I could go on and on....

DARN IT WHY IS THIS WORLD SO DAMN HARD/COMPLICATED/UNFAIR/HURTFUL...

I just hurt for everyone, and I'm damn angry.

November 8, 2006
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DITTO, DITTO, DITTO....IT IS SO UNFAIR ARMY...

November 8, 2006
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((Armyleo)))

November 8, 2006
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gg - astute's comments just sent me over the edge....

November 8, 2006
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girls I just love you both, you know I am not much for encouragement tonight, but I love you both. I care about you lots. I agree with you, but I can't go there tonight...

November 8, 2006
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me too, tired of being the victim army, it is not fair...

November 8, 2006
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army are you talking about the comments in the low self esteem thread?

November 8, 2006
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rw, check out the behavior therapy and the responses,,,fuming still here....

November 8, 2006
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oh ok astute also replied in the self esteem thread too

November 8, 2006
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oh really, gonna go check...blood pressure rising now...

November 8, 2006
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wow thats amazing wheew Im glad I missed that one.

November 9, 2006
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I Can relate!!!
Two month ago I was in a spiraling rage that I'd never experienced before. I'd just had it, NOBODY was listening, my doc gave me a scrip with a doseage that was double what could tolerate, the pharmacist said I could take a med (when I asked him to take the afternoon and check it out) that totally contraindicated with what I was taking and I was just shy of a stroke, the docs secretary wouldn't let me see the physician, and the hospital didn't think I was sick enough to see the doc of the day!!!! That was just one shitty day. An ex-husband that won't pay a dime of child support, bosses that think I can live on part-time hours and give me enough work to keep me going doubletime, kids that keep needing "stuff", but write letters that support their deadbeat dad, a lawyer that never gets back to me, a church that doesn't support me, parents that are oblivious and bailed, oh ya and a chronic illness (Lupus) vent, vent, vent........And that was September....... I felt trampled on, unlistened too, and defeated. Then oddly, after my "night of raging", I had a strange day of calm. I made a list, then started crossing shit off. I applied for different work (lo and behold got the job, plus my boss rallied for more hours in my present position). My ex got a girlfriend which has taken the pressure off of me and has given me a bargaining chip for childsupport (he wants to look "good" for his new squeeze), my kids have seemed to turn over a new leaf, my meds are adjusted, my lupus is in remission, and for the first time in a very long time I feel a very strange feeling.............. I think it is called..........."normal".

What I am saying, is life can just keep throwing punch after punch and sometimes you just end up laying there 'cause your knees are buckled. But you just have to get up and try one more time. Get out and come back swinging 'cause you just don't know what's around the corner.

Oh ya, my lawyer returned my call this morning, she gets one more chance, or she's fired.

November 9, 2006
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totally with you on this one, armyleo. man, i had a rough night last night. i was thinking the same thing about unfairness and struggle!

why, why, why? i don't understand. i watched that doc- the corporation. and afterwards i just felt so helpless. there are "good people" out there who somehow end up hurting others all the time. and then my mind inevitably went back to the abuse. and how it just seems like everybody, EVERYBODY else out there has been abused in some way too and defacto, everybody EVERYBODY is an abuser.

i just want desperately to make it all be "fixed," but i know that there's no way i can do it all alone (or even probably at all).

i want to have hope... but don't really see any. i think that all these little milestones of progress are just a distraction from the fact that the abusers are growing and abusing at a faster rate than people are recovering.

and i just don't know why i would ever want to have kids. why would i want to put them in this yucky place?

AND i feel like if i go back to being optimistic, i'll really just be fooling myself at the expense of others. uuuggghhhhh. what to do?!

sorry to be so glum, everybody. i needed to vent too.

i'm starting to think i have a codependent relationship with the environment. it sounds almost laughable. is that even possible?!

thanks army for starting this thread. it felt good to get it out.

November 9, 2006
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Oh, the why is easy for us fundamentalist type Christians. 🙂 We live in a fallen world.

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