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Why is he still defending her?
February 17, 2006
7:18 am
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Jeanette
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Tried to talk about his ex's stuff that he still has of hers and the cell phone that she still has of his for free and they've been split since June. Why is he not demanding the cell back? Why does he still have her stuff at his place? I try to get him to talk but he gets defense and runs off. What does this mean??? I want her out of our life. She has been the cause of so many conflicts and it seems its never gonna go away. What should I do?

February 17, 2006
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Could be a variety of reasons that you are not aware of including promises made when they split, guilty feelings or whatever OR he could simply not be over her.

If it bothers you that much and you have tried to talk to him about it (without getting angry)and he doesn't consider your feelings then I suggest that you might have to pull the pin.

I personally believe that in broken relationships there tends to be less and less contact over time so unless there was abuse I don't have a problem with an ex staying in loose contact with another ex.

It doesn't seem to be this way from what you have written though.

Regards. Notsure

February 17, 2006
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tell him to stop running and defending....and ask him if he cares how YOU feel about this, he should respect how you feel.........there is only so much you can do, he has to do the most by willingly giving up all her stuff.

February 17, 2006
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Thank you, I really needed to hear that from you two!! He just told me after our blow out last night over this, that he's going to take care of both issues today. Do I ask about it later or wait for him to give me the news that it was done?

February 17, 2006
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I would let it go as you had the blow-up last night. Ask him casually tomorrow or so unless he brings it up.
Think that he might be hanging on but that is only my take. I did that once too.
Notsure.

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