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Why do we do it???
September 27, 2001
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There are so many of us who have been through traumatic situations; some more than others. I have observed that these individuals that have gone through bad situations tend to be caregivers, caretakers, bodyguards, very caring people. Sometimes I wonder if those individuals and because of their own bad experiences try and help out those who can't, to justify there losses and in some ways try to make a wrong right. I hope I am not confusing anyone, and if anyone observes what I do I would be interested to know if anyone feels the same way I do.

Is it because we have seen both sides of the table and and try to make good of a bad situation or is it defense mechanism in preventing others such as ourselves from getting hurt or lessen the pain.

What I have also observed is that we tend to help others because we can't help ourselves. I am not putting anyone down and appologize if anyone feels that way. I guess it makes us feel happier when we can help out.

There are others that don't give a dam but have they gone through any really bad situations? But on the other hand they might be good at hiding.

Any comments are appreciated. Thank you.

P.S. I have had my share of upsets and I do like to help out individuals. It is unfortunate that there are people out in the world who don't give a dam. And, I find it strange that we tend to seek out the jobs that are as caregivers or protectors.

Who am I to say about it,,, if I knew all the answers I would be God; but I'm not.

Just wondering.....


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