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Why do some women make bad choices in men?
December 4, 2003
5:43 pm
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I myself have made bad choices over the years, and only a couple of good ones. Why do you suppose that keeps happening? Is it some kind of ego/fixer-upper thing?

December 4, 2003
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I mean one I really loved a lot used to hold me and tell me I was his best friend, and we would commiserate about our relationships never working out, being alone and happy to have a friend. Then he changed pace all together. Like he got tired of me or found someone else better or something. I just had the hardest time understanding that. It was kind of fickle.

December 4, 2003
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Is it about women who like to see the possibilities in everything? Including people?

December 4, 2003
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Hi artist2,,,Maybe we do see possibilities in people. Especially being female, I believe some of us make bad choices because of the "bad boy" syndrome. You know,,he's dangerous, that sort of thing, especially when we're younger. I, of course, am a glutton for punishment and apparently love to be mentally tortured, being codepdendent. Don't pay any attention to me, I'm crazed right now. No help at all. W

December 4, 2003
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wanttobewell, you deserve to be treated like a queen. 🙂

December 5, 2003
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I can only speak for myself...but, for me it subconsciously was getting that rush that this bad-boy actually had a soft heart...and was mine. This good side was mine alone and no one could ever see it.

ugh! Flashbacks of my three exboyfriends.

Another question...do you think that some women are just magnets for bad-guys?

December 5, 2003
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"and we would commiserate about our relationships never working out, being alone and happy to have a friend."

I have become very suspicious of friendships where the other person is very lonely and grateful for our companionship. It has always ended in them finding someone they like after some time and leaving their loneliness companion behind (me).

December 5, 2003
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Mafi, I've experienced that too.

December 5, 2003
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Hmm,,Mafi Artist2, Unhappy Camper, Vegas, ,,,my husband tells me all of the time how lonely he was before wonderful me came along, etc. It will be five years this coming April that we've been married. We've come a long way from the beginning as far as learning about each other. But, I do wonder about him being able to stick it out. I carry a lot of baggage that he's just not used to. He has no children, and most of you know my situation. If not, if you want, read my excrutiatingly long thread, Please I need help. Artist2, this thread really has helped me to think more clearly about things. As always, thanks from the bottom of my heart for you all,,, W

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