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May 7, 2005
5:11 pm
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Hey. Eventho my ex dummped me and has said some mean things i still think about the nice parts and long to see him. I still feel so much love or lust for him and just CANT stay angry 🙁 Its really bad cos i believe everyone needs to feel anger at times. Is this part of being codependent? How do i get and stay angry and stop getting those butterflys over him? Please help!!..

May 8, 2005
4:30 pm


Sorry to hear you are going through this : (

It's going to take time.

And you can't force emotions..

Anger may not even be the magic key to getting over this..

Instead maybe... understanding what went wrong, knowing that what you are feeling right now is okay, realising that when someone has been special to us-they might always be special even after they are no longer in our life..

Eventually those butterflies will quieten down..

: )

~love charlie~

May 8, 2005
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jadey...how long have you been w/him?? Part of letting go is absolutley looking at the bad things and remembering them. That's one way to let go. I know this sounds crazy but...put all the good things in a "file" and only visit that "file" when you are strong enough to. (i haven't been able to do that as of yet) I know it's hard and it hurts. Im there right now too
But you almost need to recognize the bad so it pisses you off enough to let go..

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