September 24, 2010
I'm righting this for a friend...She want's to know "Why she's always attracting married men. Even 2 of her friends husbands hit on her. She want's to know why these guys would think it's ok to do this? Do you think she's sending out the wrong vibes? She was even recently in a relationship with her neighbor who was not married, but lived with his girlfriend & kid for 10 years..She ended up getting pregnant, having an abortion, & she says she's not talking to the guy anymore, but it's probably a lie...Do you have any advice I can send along? She is very depressed...
September 30, 2010
Perhaps your friend does certain things that can be misinterpreted by these guys. For instance, does she get friendly with them, speaks in amialbe way with them, simles, gets extra nice...?
What about her outfit? Is she dressed in modest or provocative way?
Appearance is very important and tells a lot about our personality. It sends vibes to others how we feel toward them.
Remeber it takes two to tango. These guys did not take advantage of her unless she gave them a license to do so, be it appearance, outfit, behavior, conversation, niceness...
I would recommend your friend to speak to social worker, counselor, pastor, and write down her feelings in a journal and start a serious journey to change.
(((I will keep your friend in my prayers)))
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