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Why did she have to call? I was doing better!
August 17, 2006
8:30 pm
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It had been 3 weeks, the bitterness and anger were fading I was seeing a light at the end of the tunnel and just as I got to work today the phone rang and guess who it was? Yup the moment I heard that voive my chest felt a sharp pain. What can I do for you I replied to her Hi. She tells me some lame story on how her sister wont be coming in today cause shes sick. I sarcastically say can't she call in for herself? We both kinda laugh it odd and began a civil conversation. How are you fine and you type of convo. As we talk we began to joke around and we start to really losen up. This is what I missed. I jokingly tell her you missed me huh, thats why you called cause you miss me. She laughs and asks me if I missed her? This goes back and forth for good hour of fooling around and calling eachother names. (jokingly) At the end of the conversation she says ok robert i gotta go now....robert?....robert? It hit me. No hun, no baby...but Robert. I know it's over but wow that really hurt. I said ok and hung up the phone. No bye or anything (childish, I know) just hung it up. And Here I go again feeling guilty about my actions. It's been bothering all afternoon, why couldn't I just say Ok bye. And that would have made my morning to know that we can still joke around. But no. Now I want to apologize for that but I know she wont respond and I'm tired of apologizing for a relationship that is done. I now wish I hadn't even made it a friendly convo. I should have just kept it proffesional and took her info. and went about my business. When can I do to make this guilt go away?

August 17, 2006
8:59 pm
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santino, 3 weeks is not long enought, just see it as a stumble. I know, we are on the same timeline

August 17, 2006
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santino,

No point wasting time on would have, could have, should have. Sounds like you were caught off guard and didn't have time to think about anything. YOU did not inititate this conversation anyway. There's really nothing to apologize for, unless you got sucked into some kind of "poor me" thing.

Is there anything you can do, call blocking?, caller ID? so this cannot happen again??

August 17, 2006
9:27 pm
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unfortunetly no, cheap basic phones with no special features. I got it! I wont answere the phone anymore 🙂

August 17, 2006
11:13 pm
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Robert be easy on yourself.
Next time and there will be a next time.
Just be real professional take the message and move on with your day.

Stick to the plan Man!

It over , it's done. Move on MOVE ON!

MOVE ON!

August 17, 2006
11:16 pm
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I know, she just sounded so diffrent. Like she didn't care anymore. She was friendly but she just seemed distant. As if someone was talking for her. I have so many thoughts running through my head on how I feel about her.

August 17, 2006
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The thought that you need to remember is that your relationship is over. Give it time. There are many lonely kind and loving women out there. Working in the supermarket , cinema and fortune 500 companies. As Cher said in "MOonStruck" SNAP OUT OF IT"

August 17, 2006
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lol, 1 of my favorite scenes in movies. Thanx

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