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why Did I do it i feel so dirty and stupid
October 16, 2005
4:04 pm
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Hi, I am brand new to this site. My plan was to just read the threads and kind of see what was going before I posted anything. I have never been in a chat site before ever.

As I was reading through, I found your post to be one of the most interesting. I must say I applaud your decision and actions. You have nothing to regret or be ashamed of. In fact I have a lot of respect for you. You were not cheating. Think of it like any other phone call, only "cool". Think, you were in no physical danger. You made yourself feel something obviously you needed to fulfill. You made a healthy, wise decision.

Just to share for a moment. I had been in a long term relationdhip. She left for about eighteen months. She wanted to re-establish the relationship. Roses to the office, promises of 24/7 happiness, on and on. Well she got my phone number, from I believe her Mom. I got a call one evening from her and she goes into the whole Please, Please, Please come back routine. I say No to everything. Well she breaks out into some very, very steamy, sexual talk. "Phone Sex" stuff. Well I must admit that it was "pretty damned hot". Well I indulged, and it was exciting and great and very satisfying. After one such phone call. I had asked myself if I was doing the right thing. Like I say to you. I wasn't physically with anyone. It was only talk and the only one involved was me! The calls only lasted a short time. But while it was going on it was spectacular and safe! I look back on it now with with fond memories. If I had to do it again I would have. There is no shame in what you did. Like you said yourself and a few agreed with, if things were being taken care of at home, you would not have had the need. So feel good. Feel proud. You made good decisions and you took care of business. And if you need to again....then do it again.

Best wishes, and Great phone calls!!

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