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July 13, 2005
2:31 pm
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lita
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i have a question why do we have to keep what were thinking to ourselves, would it really be so bad if i told my mother in law what i really thought of her, is there someone that gets on your nerves, why not vent here i wont tell haha

July 13, 2005
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What do you think of her? Inquiring minds want to know....
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July 14, 2005
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well where do i start i think she is a nosey , rude , stuck up, dumb b, who only raised 1 child that she absolutly messed up, he might of been a better man if his parents did not beat there son with belts, and they were also on cocaine which made his dad violent, so my husband grew up around that type of crazy , and now that he is an adult and he gets in trouble for hitting me, so of course he could go to jail, and who comes running, getting him lawyers , of course codoning his behavior, and thats how it always is , so he never has to take responsibilty for his actions. so you can understand why i dont want that crazy lady telling me how to raise my kids

July 14, 2005
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Y'know what Lita...I used to be the type'o'gal that just lashed out and told everyone what I thought of them. And I thought that I was dead right for doing it. But then my eyes were opened to different behaviour...the "let go" school of thought. See...I was only lashing out at these people in order to get a reaction, in order to get them to behave the way I wanted them to...but that never works. Also, when I lashed out often what I thought was wrong and I had been misled by people/events and my own paranoia. So I learned that to do this is futile and in the long-run I would end up stung and hurt and running away to lick my wounds. So now, when I get angry at someone, I don't bottle it up, if I need to pick someone up on a point I will, but in a civilised manner. If thats not possible, then I just detach from those people and try not to have them pull me into their lives. It may be wrong, but it works for me!!!

Now, there is nothing wrong with an anonymous vent...nobody gets hurt!!!!
So, I wanna vent!! About two girls I work with, they annoy me, because they look down on my because I am from a working class background and so is my BF. They are SNOBS!!!!! Ooooooohhh!!!

July 14, 2005
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What is it that you are trying to gain out of telling her exactly how you feel about her?

You have to think, is telling her how you feel going to accomplish anything? If not, then I wouldn't bother. It may just make things worse and she may just shrug it off like she doesn't care anyway.

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