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Why are you so sad?
October 5, 2005
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Isolating what makes me sad is difficult. It seems like all my sadness is a result of other things that I've never been able to control.

I am so so sad that my lack of making decisions at times has resulted in my present situation.

I am sad that so many people I love have died and the people left behind at this point are grieving still, only secretly, hermit-like, because the world we live in only allows you so long to get back on track with your life.

I am sad that I keep repeating past mistakes and I think I am a logical thinking intelligent person.

I'm sad that I don't rise to my own standards.

October 5, 2005
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I'm sad becaseu I am not ready to let go of some things that in the meantime make me sad. I'm angry for a lot of reasons having to do with being wronged or not having control, but I am sad becasue of things that are within my control and just don't have the outcome I want.

October 5, 2005
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I am sad that I settle for less than I deserve.

I am sad that I have hurt people that did not deserve it due to my emotional baggage.

I am sad that there are so many people suffering due to their own mistakes.

I am sad that my daughters friend has a father that does not spend time with her and a mother that is a drug addict. I am sad that this teenage girl feels unloved and worthless.

October 5, 2005
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I am sad that my parents are dead and all of my brothers.

I am sad that I cannot share my life with them and that they are no longer around for me to enjoy.

I am sad that my marriage ended in divorce and my kids have to grow up in a broken home.

I am sad that I have to bust my a$$ to make ends meet and can't spend more quality time with my kids.

I am sad that the men in my life have not valued the quality of the person that I am and cherished it.

I am sad that in a few years my kids will have to be told that their dad is a homosexual.

I am sad of what they may go through as a result of that and I am also sad that the man I intended to spend the rest of my life with is living that lifestyle.

I am sad that he will feel less of a man or embarassed when he tells his kids.

I am sad that I am all alone in this world!

October 5, 2005
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(((((shyshy))))))
WOW, I am sad that you have so many things to be sad about. I am so sad/sorry to know that your the sole survivor of you immediate family.
I am sad/sorry that your husband discovered he was gay.

October 5, 2005
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I'm sad because my hope was based on lies.

I'ms sad because my husband beat me and I divorced him because of it.

I'm sad that I cann't let go.

I'm sad that all of my dreams depended on the actions of another and not my own.

I'm sad that I put all of my eggs in one basket.

I'm sad because I want him back although he is unhealthy for me.

I'm sad that I have to learn everything the hard way.

October 5, 2005
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today, I'm sad because my son told me that if his father dies, he won't go to the funeral. I'm sad that my kids will never had a normal relationship with their dad.

October 5, 2005
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I am sad that I will see my mother's smiling face again and will never hear her sweet voice again becuase she died on January 22, 2004.

I am sad that I wasn't there with my mother when she died.

I am sad that my father had to suffer the last year of his life in a miserible nursing home.

I am sad I wasn't with my father when he died.

I am sad that my father was given a feeding tube and could no longer enjoy eating.

I am sad that my father had zero pleasure the last christmas of his life and he had always loved christmas.

I am sad about all the tears my mother shead over my father's drinking when I was little.

I am sad that my father had to ask people for food when my family was very young as refugees from the war in Austria and we were so poor.

October 5, 2005
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Iam sad because no matter how hard i try i feel like ill never be good enough,

Iam sad because my grandma died and she meant everything to me. she always new what to do , she lived through 2 husbands, both died. after 2 marriages she told me she wanted to be alone the rest of her life, she didnt want another husband, i can understand now why she said that. at the time i just didnt want her to be alone. i write poems for her and take them out to her grave. and it hurts me because that is the only way i can be close to her.

iam sad because my baby died and i never got to hold my child, or see my baby. my heart aches for that, just typing this stuff has brought me to tears. i usually try to push this stuff out of my mind because it hurts so bad. God help me heal one day.

October 5, 2005
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iam bumping this one up, because it felt very good to be able to talk about what makes me sad also.

October 5, 2005
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I am sad because i am 28 years old and i feel as though my life is over & I don't have the strength to go on...

I am sad because my boyfriend & best friend of 4 years moved out two days ago, i am all alone & i have no idea when i will speak to him again....

I am sad because i have no one here to hold me and tell me i'm going to be alright....

October 5, 2005
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Tonight, I'm sad that my friends are doing nothing to acknowledge the hurt feelings I expressed to them and aren't trying to nurture our friendship.

I'm sad that work was so frustrating today and I'm not sure how to deal with the same things in the future.

I'm sad that I think I'm going to get stood up tonight.

Man, I love a good pity party. Sometimes it's just sooo.... NECESSARY. LOL. and comforting... to say these things out loud.

October 5, 2005
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I'm sad cause a year ago today my divorce was final

I'm sad cause I don't have someone to hug me and hold me

I'm sad cause my older daughter wants nothing to do with her dad

I'm sad cause I can't visualize what my life is going to be like

I'm sad cause I let myself be with a man that is married

I'm sad cause I don't feel special to anyone

October 5, 2005
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I am sad that I can't see my family of origin or be intimate with them or rely on them to be my source of refuge and support.

I am sad that my parents suffered as kids.

I am sad that I am the only overcomer in my family who is walking in truth and working on my own healing and recovery while the rest of my family is in total denial.

I am sad that my oldest sister refuses to communicate with me coz I told her if she was not willing to change for the better, I would keep my distance from her.

I am sad coz I feel like an orphan.

I am sad coz I don't have one single gf.

I am sad coz my favorite pen got screwed up and I don't know how to fix it. I love this pen so much!!!

I don't suppose there are places that can fix pens! Are there?

October 6, 2005
1:26 am
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I am bumping this up because I want more people to espress their feelings of sadness. It is incredible to me how much pain and sadness some of us are trying to let out or have to contain on a daily basis. This is important.

October 6, 2005
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I am sad for all the years I've wasted being sad.

October 6, 2005
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I am sad for all the time and money I spent keeping him in my life.

I am sad that I put my children through many days of worrying about me because I had him in my life.

I am sad that I cant let go of my feelings for him.

I am sad that I feel like a loser because of him.

I am sad because I am telling everyone I am doing fine when I am just as misserable as I was when I told him to leave,

I am sad to know he is going on with his life and I am not in mine.

I am sad that I feel I will be alone for the rest of my life.

I am sad that I have terrible thoughts of what to do to myself but thank god I dont react on them.

The one thing I am glad about is finding this site.

October 6, 2005
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I am sad because I settled for less than I deserve.

I am sad because I continue to stay in a house that is not a home.

I am sad because I live with a man who doesnt truly love me or his daughters.

I am sad because I have been so scared of being by myself, knowing that being by myself is better than living in this hell.

I am sad that i cannot do a better job protecting my daughters against an evil stepson.

but I am glad that my eyes are opening up and that there is a way out of this mess.

October 6, 2005
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I am sad because the family I love is totally disfunctional

Because I was separated from my biological Mom when I was 3

My dad, who I idolized, cheated on my mom

Because we were taught never to speak unless we had something pleasant to say

Because asking questions was a no-no

Because I have felt cheated all these years

Because my Mom died this year and there is noone with whom I can confide

Because family secrets ALWAYS lead to unhappiness

Because my stepmother never gave me a hug (I hug her all the time)

Because, after being raped, I did nothing (well, not exactly nothing, but I didn't go to the police)

Because I have forgotten how to have fun (I'm working on that one)

October 7, 2005
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i'm sad just because

i'm sad to feel so numb and am getting those feelings back of wanting to close up to everything and everyone again

i'm sad for wanting a protective cement wall to surround me sealed and unyielding

i'm sad for the block that tells me whatever i think or feel is inadequate

i'm sad for the filament that tells me to go on is quivering and wants to extinguish itself

October 7, 2005
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iam sad because i almost aloud my self to do something that would set me back,

but iam happy because almost doesnt count and im still clean.

October 7, 2005
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I feel empty!

October 8, 2005
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I am sad that I am so manipulative; I don't like being this way.

I'm sad that I find it so hard to be close to anyone; I used to be so trusting,

I'm sad that I'm never happy with where I am in my life; I'm always living a day ahead.

I'm sad that I worry so much about things that are really not worth it.

I'm sad that I fight so hard for things that may not even be for me in the first place.

I'm sad becasue I am the way I am and I don't seem to be getting any better...

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