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Why are us young women we so needy??
December 20, 2004
11:11 am
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hey,
i think this site is great. it helps us get stuff off our mind. Well i always wonder why us women are so needy? im 24 years old, quite attractive and a popular girl, the trouble is i have a problem meeting guys. I meet guys when im out and that but it never works out. Are guys my age just not into relationships these days. Im not looking for long term commitment..just someone to go on dates with and have fun. Ive been in relationsips in the past which i have always ended. ive been single now for over a year. I met a guy on saturday night while out with my friends. he took my number and said hed call yesterday..he never did, and im thinking its happening again..!! usually im quiet independent but when it comes to guys im so needy...is anyone else having the same problems right now..anyone want to guess if he'll call eventually ???

December 20, 2004
11:21 am
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Funny that you say that. Just this weekend I was talking to a male friend of mine and he said he has never had a girlfriend that he met "out". Then I thought about it and I never have either. I think that meeting someone at a club is hard because alchol is usualy involved and its just one encounter with this person. Plus there's so many games played at a place like that. Alot of men wait a couple days to call though. So I wouldn't give up just yet.

December 20, 2004
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Start turning it around emerald. It sounds like you give your power away from the start! Don't you know we are the ones who hold all the power?

If he asks you for your number, put some mtstery in it. Say, oh no, I don't date guys I meet out. or I don't think that would be a good idea. or sorry, I don't have telephone hook up right now, maybe I'll see you around, but it was great talking with you!

You see? You are always in control and until you see it that way, you will always be needy.

December 20, 2004
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yeah your right about meeting people in bars and clubs..its hard to build something from such a brief encounter..but then again people have courage with a few drinks on them to talk to each other and express their feelings more. I hope he does call, i really want to start dating someone soon. see how needy i sound?

December 20, 2004
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He asked me for my number well before the night ended. he called my phone to see if i had given the right number. Then he said, now you have my number too..i told him i wasnt going to call him and that hed have to call me. He also asked me to go ice skating with him tomorrow night but i said i couldnt coz im going to my xmas party..so he asked if id go 2nite and i said ok..he txt me when i was in the cab home and said "safe home" i replied saying. "thanks, hope to hear from you real soon.
surely he would have called or txt by now if he wantd to go ice skating tonight!!

December 20, 2004
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So, if all this happened, why are you waiting for him to call? Why not call him and say, what time are we doing the ice skating thing? And if he blows you off say, Oh that's fine, I have a few people going so we'll have a good time without you!

December 20, 2004
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Well HE asked ME to go ice skating. I dont think girls should call guys, im a bit old fashioned like that. i think if a guys interested he'll call and if i txt r call them, they wont want to know. Dont they like the chase??

December 20, 2004
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I guess I am not old fashioned. Don't get me wrong. You can see I try to perpetuate the chase but I do it with my own power in my hands now. I didn't always. I used to wait but not any more.

You'll see, after enough hurt you say, the hell with that way, let me try something different. Think outside the box esmerelda!! It can be fun!

December 20, 2004
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To throw out political correctness, guys my age are generally quite petty and enjoy playing games and treating people like commodities, just like women my age, I find.

But that's generally just because we deal with our problems in all the wrong ways. And the ones who actually have some of the answers are the ones who are most ignored because playing ball for them is a vain and useless exercise relegated to a less mature age of thought.

December 21, 2004
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I think alot of the issue is that folks just don't take the time to teach their kids how to treat other people in the right way. There is no respect for girls any more and there is no expectations on the guys anymore. Parents need to take the time to teach their kids self respect and how to be independent; not have to have a relationship to survive.

That's my soapbox for now.

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