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Why are people mean?
February 4, 2000
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hgl
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I have a crazy story. I work with this person that I started dating I guess you can say. The twist here is that I've been with my boyfriend for three years and have been with HER for two. Then she met this other women and is now with her. We never really talked about what we were doing until she met this other person. We didn't know that we both had alot of feelings for each other. Any she is with her and I got kick to the curb, but not really because we would still hook up with each other every-once-and-awhile. Which wasn't good for me because I still have feelings. She told the other women about me and of course she hates me. This women made up a story that one of my friends was calling and saying these crazy things like she does love you leave her alone. Anyway this women made it look like I gave her #'s to my friend to do this for me. This women first of all is nuts to make up a story like this, and second how do I get the women I work with to believe me. She been my bestfriend for the past to years, how do I get her to open her eyes and see that the one she loves really has problems.

February 5, 2000
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You can't. Love is blind and if you interfer..it will come back to bite you. Let time take it's course...everyone's true colors come out in the end.

Good luck to you.

February 6, 2000
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hgl,

As rough as it sounds, Kthomas is right.

You will likely spend all kinds of time, energy, and emotions trying to straighten it out, and in the end, hopefully, at least you'll learn the lesson that so many of us on these discussions have learned...'we can't change other people, and we can't open other's people's eyes'

Stay in touch.

SC

February 10, 2000
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hgl,

you said you were with your boyfriend for 3 yrs and with her for 2. Are you still with him? If you are, it sounds like you have to make up your mind. You can't expect her to be with ONLY you if you still have your boyfriend, regardless of the third woman.

Decide who is best for you before you even try opening her eyes. And if you are successful in the breakup, she may resent you for it.

Kay

February 22, 2000
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I have since told the person that I can't be around her anymore because she does not trust or believe in me. How am I supposed to be best friends with someone that thinks I'm a lier. The only thing that makes me feel good about the situation is that, I know that I did nothing wrong. I also know that the truth will come out, because you can't just make up things like that without getting caught. It has really been hard though, not to talk to someone that you care so much about. I guess the fustrating part is waiting for the truth to come out. I'm also not with my boyfriend anymore, but he does want to meet me out for a drink this week. What that means or how that will pan out l just have to wait and see.

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