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why am i feeling like this ....
June 24, 2004
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lampa
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Hi there does anybody know i why i feel like this .... i'm thinking about my boyfriend over and over and over again in my head, doubting my future with him, wondering if things will work out, if we will have kids, where will we live, will i be happy and they just go on and on, recurring thoughts bouncing around in my head. they never seem to go away and am finding it hard to concentrate on anything else. my boyfriend is a wonderful person,who is caring and understanding and who i love very much.I can tell him absolutely anything and we are soul mates. these negative thoughts and are bring me down and making me feel depressed as i struggle to live in the "present" moment.

June 24, 2004
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Has something happen recently that has caused you to think this way. Has he changed towards you, have you spoken to him about how you are feeling..???

June 24, 2004
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How long have you 2 been together??
have you ever suffered depression in the past??

June 24, 2004
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LAMPA
Chill honey. Breathe please. Don't stress over thing you have no control over. Let nature take its course and just be aware. Ride the ride honey don't let the ride ride you.
Take a deep breath and say PEACE.....

June 24, 2004
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hi again and thanks for getting back to me.... yes i have spoken to my boyfriend about this and told him that i do feel confused sometimes and how i have hot and cold feelings, my mood changes like the wind and i hate it when i'm not feeling close to him. i started taking anti d two weeks ago and thankfully i don't feel tearful anymore and i can talk more freely about it. sometimes i think i'm obsessive about the whole thing, fine combing everything in detail, i just want to be happy with where i am in this life and look forward to a bright future ...... is this depression?

June 25, 2004
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Hey I go thru the same thing w/ my boyfriend! don't feel like you're the only one. I obsess over my man all the time, we've only been dating about two months and I'm already about to tell him I love him. We've talked about my obsession and he thinks I need to just relax and enjoy life more. It does sound like you, also, are afraid of your future. I suffer from Bipolar with more depression than mania. you might want to keep a journal of your thoughts until you find a therapist.

Joanne

June 25, 2004
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A journal is a great idea. Being afraid of things is normal, but when the consume you and control your life it's time to backup, take a deep breath and slow down! If he cares about you in any way he will understand and be patient with the problem until you get a hold of it. Good luck.

June 25, 2004
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Fear of the unexpected it's OVERWHELMING and so real when the thought keep lurking through your head.
I totally understand I struggle with similar thoughts.
I've been married before and that failed and hurt.
My present boyfriend says he wants to marry me and in Dec well be together for 2 years and I'm still confused about the "YES".
COnquering our past will help bring clarity.

good luck to you

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