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Who does dream interpretation?
October 18, 2006
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Hi All!

I know some of you do dream interpretation...I had an absolute doozie of a dream last night!!!

Wow!

My grandmother and I (She died in 1998) had to make a journey to the UK for some sort of family occasion (the only family that lives in the UK is my cousin, she's lived there for 4 years). She wouldn't let me drive and insisted I relax on the backseat as I was tired. So we both get into a blue old car and set off. I fell asleep on the backseat and when I woke up (I was about 16 in the dream, definitly not 32!) I realised my Nana was driving backwards, I was said "Nana, you should let me drive, I know how to drive forwards" and quite uncharacteristically she kinda snapped at me "No, it ok, I've always driven like this I'm used to it, shush, go back to sleep its ok" She's driving backwards leaning around looking out the rear-view window!!! (By the way, she never owned a car or knew how to drive when she was alive) So, I doubtfully lay back down again...next thing we had stopped off at a port-town in Dublin but it was Dublin around the 1970's, very old-fashioned and quite grim, near the sea...but the sea was murky and stormy, we stopped off and went into a fish-and-chip cafe real 1970's style and my nana is talking to some local people she seems to know, older people, I kinda just hung around waiting. Then we were off again, next thing we are in the UK (Well, it felt like thats where we were) and we are in a church at mass, My nana is beside me, its some sort of community centre type place, then I'm standing outside it and I realise its no longer my nana, but one of my best-friends mother Maureen, who died about 3 years ago. I'm shocked that its Maureen, she's wearing really bright red lipstick and is talking to some teenagers and she's really happy, I decide I must call up my friend to tell her I'm with her mum, but as I'm dialling (yeh, I have a cell phone in my pocket suddenly!), I realise I might upset my friend as her mum is dead...thats when I realise, in the dream, that I am dreaming, and then in the dream I wake up (I know confusing!!) as I'm dialling, and I say to my friend "I just had a dream and your mum was in it, and she's wearing really bright red lipstick, in fact hold on, she's just walked by me now" I say this as Maureen is walking by me to talk to someone else. As I'm standing there, my cousin (who lives in the UK) walks up to me, and I say "Oh Paula, how are you" and its Paula, but its paula when she was about 14 or 15. And she's like "oh this place is great, Its a great place to live" but actually it looks a but rough and dirty, there is grafitti all over the place and its dull...so she brings me around the back of the church/community centre, and she's telling me about this boy she's kissed, and there is an old playground full of teenagers hanging out, there is a couple kissing, the girl is sitting on railings and the boy is standing facing her. My and my cousin are just talking about what its like to live in the UK, and I say "Oh Paula, we have to go" (I feel at this point that we need to travel further east) and then I wake up.

BIZARRE!!!! The driving backward thing...is that my nan telling me to let go of the past? These past few nights before I sleep I've been asking her for guidance...funny she came to me in a dream now!

October 18, 2006
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Oh bumpity bump...calling all dream-weavers!!!

October 18, 2006
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Hi rev...sometimes I am able too. Will read and get back to you later. 🙂

October 18, 2006
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Mwah!!! Thanks!

October 18, 2006
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Blimey girl...I havent got a clue.

I can never interpret dreams. They are so weird. I guess if you were about 16 then it would make sense your cousin was young too....

And if you have been talking to your Gran at night it would make sense that you would dream of her..but the driving backwards thing?

Maybe she is telling you its time to move forwards....

October 18, 2006
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yeh...seems to me she's saying "I'm getting annoyed with ya chick...look here is what you are doing" and then she starts driving backwards to show me how I'm moving but I'm not moving forwards, or maybe she's saying "You are making your journey uneccessarily difficult for yourself"

I dunno...can't wait to go asleep tonight to see if she'll say something else! The bit I'm confused about is my mates mum showing up...and my cousin and the significance of the port-town and the red lipstick??? hmmmm My nan's anniversary is coming up soon too, I'm organising the annual family get-together, Paula will be missing as she's in the UK of course...maybe thats why she's in my dream. Gosh I miss her too though, she's adorable! A mad egg altogether!!!

How are you doing sleepless? Did I tell ya I was seeing a bloke for a while from the UK. Nice guy, from yorkshire, I broke if off though...wasn't ready for "hot and heavy" yet, but he was!

October 18, 2006
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OOOHH Rev. Those Yorkshire men...gotta watch them

Im pretty much same old same old...things have been pretty tricky round her since I started setting all sorts of boundaries but I think they have improved a bit. Well I have improved a bit.

Remains to be seen about him but at least I am clearer about what I will and wont put up with him. Whether it will be a deal clincher or not Im not too sure. We are still working through a lot of stuff

Good to talk to you; I think youre right about your Gran...not sure about the friend's mum though. Maybe she wants you to call your friend?

take care

love sleepless

October 19, 2006
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Hi rev,

To me, it seems you had a very close relationship with your grandmother, but there may be some unresolved issues with Paula and Maureen...the red lipstick,...red over the mouth may relate to angry words spoken (only guessing though!!) Paula and Maureen seem to me in the dream to perhaps not have been 'real' or 'truthful' with you about something. Your grandmother sounds wonderful though and someone whose advice you greatly respected, so it would make sense that she was the one in the dream that was leading you...perhaps trying to show you that no matter how hard you try, some issues have no answers, and if you let it bother you to a point where you are always trying to figure something out...you will end up hurting yourself too.

The murky sea...water is usually cleansing, but not in Dublin where you went WAY back even more...could be still saying, no matter how far back you go, you will not solve it. Whatever it is, Let it go, as it is "driving" you to be less than your best. Time for YOU to get in the driver's seat, and move forward.

Again...I am not a dream interpreter, but have had experience with my own dreams in this sense, and it is fun to look at other's sometimes. I think dreams have very real messages.

What do you think?

October 19, 2006
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Hmmm...food for thought! Paula and Maureen, I'm kinda squirming here...because, with Paula...well I'm not sure she's happy really happy...but I can't really talk about it here, in case she stumbles on this.

Maureen...well, I we weren't that close...she was a lovely person and all, but she was my friends mum...so we didn't really have that kind of relationship where it would get into arguments or discussions..BUT it could be that she's angry with me for dropping the ball a little with my friend when I was going through the sh*t with my ex...or maybe its that I'm worried she's angry with me. My friend has gone through such a lot since she died, and I have tried to be there for her and support her, I have cried with her and comforted her....I dunno, its a funny one. What you say about my nan definitly makes sense. Were we close? Well she had 13 grandkids, and never had favourites, but she always had time for all of us and loved us all...and we just loved the hell out of her!!! She was strong and feisty, she was really old-fashioned though and had some real strong opinions on stuff that I didn't always agree with. But if she was alive now, I know she'd be like "Arrah, would you ever pick yourself up and don't be feeling sorry for yourself" she was that type!

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Well at any rate it was nice that you were able to have a dream about your grandmother. Maybe dreams don't always have meaning, but maybe could be your way of just missing her.

who knows, right?

whatever it means...hugs to you.

omw

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