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April 13, 2004
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a few days ao i was feeling ok thought things had changed but its creeping back on me now. i like to help others out and i dont want them to feel sorry for me so its only you guys and emma who know how i really feel. id like to get help from freinds but i dont want to worry them id feel stupid to talk to my familly so there jus doesnt seem like theres a way out. jus like im in a huge deep black hole and ant get out in anyway. it feels like my life is empty

April 14, 2004
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my life jus gets better and better.....
was talking to dan earlier on msn and he asked me wether i was going off of emma i asked why and he said cos she told him again that she loves him, he asked her " do you love me ? " and emma aparently said yes 🙁

April 14, 2004
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I'm not too happy with Danny-boy myself. Personally, I think he's being a jerk to you. Friends don't do things to make friends feel bad. I'm getting rather steamed up about him. Turkey!

Find yourself a better friend. You don't need him & his immature ways. How'd he like it if the shoe was on the other foot??? Grrrrrr.

Friends take CARE of friends. You've already talked to him about how you don't like his mentioning their personal relationship right?? If you have, he has not respected your wishes & you should drop the friendship. If you haven't talked to him, do so now to avoid further issues. If you don't want to tell him & don't want to know what's going on in their relationship.... keep away.

You have to take care of you.

April 15, 2004
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ive bin thinking that i might block him from my msn list. and i agree he is being a jerk. but im also thinking emma might be doing it too, im gonna ask her if se loves me if she says yes then ill know that she meant it to dan and me as a mate, if she says no then it means that she either doenst like me or she really does love dan

April 15, 2004
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Rather than an outright blunt approach, mayhap say "What are your feelings for me?" Be prepared for an honest answer which you may not reciprocate your exact feelings....

I wish you well though. Dan should be nicer to you.

April 15, 2004
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thing is shes quite....well....imature realy, she cant talk about things like love it`ll take me all night to get it out of her, just as well im not tired !

April 16, 2004
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humm...maybe, but like if i wanted to talk to emma about how i feel she jus says " ok " that really doesnt help.

April 16, 2004
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its been suggested that i tell emma i only love her as a freind but i dont know wether to tell her that or not, its not true cos i love her much more than that but also shes a freind and a another mate said that dating freinds isnt a good idea cos if you break up then you lose a freind so i dont know what to do , any ideas?

is it ok to date freinds or should i tell her that i only love her as a mate? please help !

April 16, 2004
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hmmm. Good question. Depends on the people involved. Some people can be friends, date, even get "involved", find it don't work for them, and end the "relationship" but remain friends. Some people can't. I must admit, I think the more mature in thinking the people are, the better the chances are of remaining friends afterwards. All dating is, is trying to see if this person and you were meant to be. Some break-ups get nasty, some don't. Respect plays a big part in it too. If you respect one another, and things aren't working out, you can pretty much have a calm "break up". If you disrespect one another, yell, scream, get trash-mouthed... count the friendship over (pretty much unless you try apologizing later).

I hope this helps you. I guess you just have to decide is it worth possibly losing a friendship to see what you could possibly gain (a GF). Talk it over. Ask in the beginning if things didn't work out, could you still be friends.... but, bear in mind, if she is the one to break it off, and then she dates another.... how would you feel & handle the situation?

Sorry, lots of angles to consider and think of. Just make sure to think it thru first, worst case scenario and all.

Good luck Puppy.

April 16, 2004
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well to be honest i dont think she`d date me anyway, but if she broke it off aslong as she werent nasty about it id be ok with it, but if i broke it off i dont think shed like me atall, but not going out with her is making me feel so bad, it jus hurts everyday and makes me feel like a failure and like im worthless, why cant it just all stop

April 16, 2004
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and also i really need to know wether to tell her i only love her as a mate, i dont know wether to or not cos on one hand we might be closer mates and it would give her and dan a chance but it would also hurt me to keep my feelings insed, but then if i dont it might ruin any chance of dan and her being 2gether and being happy and we wouldnt be so close. grrrr i hate decisions

April 16, 2004
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Sorry I don't have better advice for you Pup.... Just gonna have to decide if the gamble is worth the consequences...

How tight is your friendship with Emma as it is now? You could tell her you love her as a mate, and care about her alot. Perhaps word it that if things don't work out for her & Dan, you'd be there for her. Be warned though - Dan won't like you telling her that. Are you getting any vibes from Emma that she'd be interested in more than friendship?? I know it's tough being a teen, it's a growing & learning process. Try to read people & the situation first to get a scope on it before doing something. Be kinda James Bond-ish - observe, plan, and then proceed. Ask yourself ... Is Emma happy when with Dan? What has she said to you about their relationship? Does Dan treat her well? How does she act when with you? Is she happy? Does she give you the eyes that show more than just friendship, any hints she'd be interested in more???

I know it hurts, but teenage relationships don't usually last a long time. Maybe by biding your time, you will be able to keep both friends? Do you want to with Dan treating you as he is? Let's face it though, if Dan cares about her alot & knows you do too - he could be feeling threatened by you & intentionally letting you know they care for one another....

It's tough. What you do depends on how much patience you have to wait for this girl & see if she feels the same for you. No guarantees though.
You can either burn the wheels in your brain by spinning them round & round; try to let nature take its course; OR take a gamble & have a serious chat with her. Just, please, for your own sake, if you do have this talk - be as prepared as possible for ANY result that may occur. But, I think I'd bid my time if she appears happy....

Good luck Pup. Try to do something fun this weekend to take your mind off things... don't be sad all w/e. Spring is here, enjoy the outdoors. You are only 14 once - take advantage of it while you can.

April 17, 2004
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i am feeling better today as i was talking to nicola online and shes such a happy person!

and i dont know if emma wants more thasn freindship with me, sometimes i catch her looking at me but as soon as i look at her she turns round but thats about it really, i dont think she does, and dan doesnt treat her brilliantly, he uses her abit like a doll, touchin her even tho she appears not to like it, but ithink she has told him that she likes it so he does it and she pretends not to like it, im jus confused about it all really, but i guess ill wait and see how it all goes

April 17, 2004
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Please tell me more about Nicola... I like that she is a happy person & helps lift your spirits. Sounds nice already. Does she share any of your interests or hobbies? Is she your same age? Cute? Any potential for romantic feelings between you two?

Your decision to wait and see how things go in regards to Emma seems wise. I must admit I'm concerned for Emma "he uses her abit like a doll, touchin her even tho she appears not to like it, but ithink she has told him that she likes it so he does it and she pretends not to like it". Are you sure she told Dan different, that she doesn't mind how he is touching her? Some girls are too timid to speak up fearing they'll lose their BF. I hope this is not the case. Did you ever ask her about this? I remember when I was young, I thought that touching was the way to show you cared, but I never let a guy touch me if I didn't like, even if it meant losing them. I remember seeing guys touching their GF's in public & their GF's swatting their hands away. Kind of disrespectful don't you think? Treating a person in a way that makes them uncomfortable... I hope Emma knows what she is doing, and will stop it if she doesn't like it.

Be a friend to Emma and spend some more time with Nicola (as I like that she lifts your spirits). You need to be happy yourself in order to be the most beneficial to those you around you. A happy Puppy achieves so much more than one that is down.

Be well young man...

April 18, 2004
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🙂 thanks,

im not sure about romantic feelings between me and nicola i do kinda fancy her and i told her that but thing is shes a really close mate and i dont wanna risk losing her just for the sake of dating her, shes more grown up than emma so i guess if we did split she could handle it, but at the moment im happy being mates with her

and if you wanna cheer up just watch the new fanta advert it has a song where the chorus is " everythings fantastic, everythings fantastic..."

April 21, 2004
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It's been a few days.... how have you been? Do anything fun over the w/e?

April 22, 2004
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sorry i havent written havent had much time im on work expererience, but imdoing ok i guess i sumtimes get a little down but i get over it, karates going well got a grading soon so i should get my yellow bel, had to restrain myself earlier cos mt enemy ( robert ) got on thsame bus as me with his mate karl and karl lives near me so they followed me down my road till they got to karls road ad i jus so felt like turning round and smashig robert cos i know that now i know abit of karate hes no threat to me ( hes a little weed also ) but i didnt. hows everyone else doing?

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I am glad things are going well for you. You enjoying karate, and enjoying the confidence, self-control, & self-esteem it generates. I am glad you did not smash Robert's face in. It proves you are more mature than he is. Don't sink to his level unless he pulls the first punch on you, then defend yourself (make sure though, his pals aren't gonna gang up on you - I wouldn't want you to get hurt).

Things here? SSDD - same stuff, different day. There is talk of the office pulling me from a branch location to work in the main office for a week or two. Mixed feelings about that. I like where I work & the other office is further away. Not crazy about being further away from my kids (age 1 & 7). But, this is only short term, so anything is do-able. Oh - I also received thank you notes from the High School class I lectured on auto insurance. They were all very sorry I had to endure the bomb threat with them & teach the 2nd half of the class outdoors. (I'm serious! This did happen!) The police did arrest an 18 yr old senior boy for the bomb threats. I feel bad for him. He obviously needs help, but b/c he is 18, he is treated as an adult & this is a felony (times 3 b/c he confessed to 3 of the threats).

Hope your school isn't quite as exciting as that!

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well im having another of those days again 2day, the realisation that im never gonna be partners with emma is kinda making me feel bad but i think ill get through it eventually,

and no my skool isnt quite that " exciting " 🙂 wish it was tho !

April 23, 2004
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havent seen emma in 3 weeks ive jus found a picture of her and god, shes so beautiful, i have to give up i know i do but i just cant ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

just felt like telling sum1 how i feel cos i cant keep it in

April 23, 2004
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I'm sorry you are so sad. We've all had "loves" that we can't have. Part of life I guess. But, you have been doing better... focus on that. May I suggest contacting Nicola? You said she always perks you up.

I wish you well... and NO you wouldn't want to be in a school that for a long time had weekly bomb threats. The kids were made to stay outside while the school was being checked... in snow, rain, or sun. Sometimes an hour or more outside. Parents weren't called & kids weren't sent home as school didn't know if they'd have a parent home to let them in. This school houses grades 6-12. Lots of kids scared, lots of parents scared too. Lots of tax money spent to hire police to patrol inside the school & hire bathroom monitors to keep track of who went to the loo when. 13 threats in all. All this for a teenager who wanted attention, and couldn't think of a better way to get it. Sad...

Give Nicola a buzz & chat. It's the w/e. Do something fun.

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i talked to a few peole online last night and im eeling better now, plus its sunny and warm 🙂 goin fishing tomorrow to so things are better.

April 30, 2004
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mmm ok i need a little advice and you are all good at giving it ive come here !

ive bin feeling rather sad lately and i blame myself for ruining a chance to date emma, and i really hate myself for it,

ive seen a nice necklace and im thinking of buying it for emma, it costs 70 pounds, but is it a good idea?

im doing it cos then i wont hate myself so much and cos i think its a nice thing to do

any ideas?

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have things changed between Emma & Dan? have things changed between Emma & you?? if nothing has changed, you may make the situation worse & definitely lose a friend, or two....

Not sure how much 70 pounds is compared to dollars .... but if that is alot, I'd hold off. We all suffer regrets thru life of opportunites missed...

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its around 150 dollo0rs i think, im nopt thinking about it anymore i think i will do it but thats not the reason im here today.

i am feeling really really really upset cos of summin emma said last nite on msn...

she said that when she leaves hime shes gonna move abroad and of course that means that wen she does ill never see her again,

also she said that when we leave school we`ll probably never see eachother again, im feeling sooooo sad now cos of that, i cried for an hour last night just thinking about it and its being hard now to not cry, i cant live without her i just cant, and to make things worse ive found my penknife so now im scaring myself that i might do summin stupid, why did i have to be born? i wanna die

i really need ure help

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