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When will it stop.....
March 28, 2008
10:55 pm
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My ex of 1 1/2 months just called my cell phone. I haven't had contact with him in a month. I was over at a friends house having dinner and having a good time. Then my phone rang and I looked at the caller ID. It was him. Why is he calling me? We have nothing to say to each other. I am soooo curious, but I will NOT call him back. It is OVER! But the curiosity side of me wants to call him and see what he wanted. He didn't leave a message. If it was important, he would have left a message.

I also received a phone call on my cell phone at work the other day. Some one was looking for him to tell him where the "meeting" was. I explained to this woman that we weren't together any more and she had the wrong number. Then she proceeded to tell me that she needed to tell him where the meeting was. I just told her I couldn't help her and hung up.

Why would people that he works with have my cell phone number? They didn't have it when we were together, why would they have it now?

I'm kind of freaked out. I am home by myself until next Monday and am scared. What if he shows up? What does he want? What do I do?

Skigirl

March 29, 2008
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who left whom in this relationship?

March 29, 2008
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I left this very toxic relationship. He is an alcoholic and on drugs. I put up with it for 1 1/2 years and I am done with it.

I am trying to move on. I was doing good until that phone call. I am sticking to the no contact rule, but I feel so guilty. The guilt is very hard to deal with. Maybe he needed me for something.

I am smart enough not go give in to that. I do miss him, but I am constantly reminding myself of the codependency. I am strong enough to not go back. I just feel guilty. I am going to church tonight, so I hope that will ease some of the guilt.

March 29, 2008
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(((Skigirl))) Good for you for sticking to the no contact. It doesn't matter what his reason for calling you is, the fact is you know that the relationship is no good. He is a grown man who can take care of himself so you do not have to feel guilty about him.

If there is one thing I know about addicts, they know how to get their fix at any cost. Just concentrate on yourself.

Keep us posted!

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