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When is it time to let her go
November 21, 2004
11:53 pm
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samueladamsvt
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I have been seperated from my ex for the past 6 months and last week she called me and asked me if I would let her stay with me for a little while and we would talk about getting back together ...she said she had a friend that also needed a place to stay somone that she had fooled around with but was not intreasted in...I told her that I would help her but I couldnt help him and that it wasnt my problem...she beged me and beged me till I gave in.. the deal was he could stay at my apartment for that night but he had to be gone in the morning....well to make a long story short...the guy she was fooling around with was her step brother and when we got back from are long 12 hour drive to go get her she never ended up staying with me she said she was worried about him....and thats all she seemed to care about...a few days went by and still he had no place to go ...so I paid for a motel room for him and bought him a bus tickit back home...that same night my Ex did come over for a about an hour and then said she was going to take a taxi to her moms house...I almost believed her till she walked out the door...somthing didnt seem right...so I jumped in my car and followed the taxi and shure enough it was going to the motel room that I paid for...She also managed to get a job were I'm working...making me her boss and I cant ...I just dont understand she tells me she still has feelings for me ...and I know I still have feelings for her even after everything that has happened...i have to see her everyday...I guess I'm just not shure how to deal with this or except it.

November 21, 2004
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What do you want to see happen? I see what she has done to you, but what do you want?

November 22, 2004
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I hate that you have to deal w/ this.

I had to work w/ a gal that had an affair w/ my ex once. She was my boss. I couldn't take it and quit after a couple months humiliation.

If she's gonna lie to you now then what's she gonna pull at work? Is there any way you can get her transferred to another department?
She's alraedy proven she's just usin you for her own gain. (Sorry)

November 22, 2004
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I guess I want to ask you too, what does your ideal realtionship look like? Is lieing part of it? Is manipulation, is someone using you part of it? or wold you rather have trust, respect, integrity...etc.? Go for what you want, what ever that is, and will enhance you rather than tear you down.

December 27, 2005
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yup I used him and it felt good after all the crap he put me though. he only tells you a bullsh+t story and only halve is true. he used to bet me up and once he even left me stranded in a diffrent town. every month is was a new girl that he cheated on me with and then every three month I found out about five more girls. he even slept with his best frineds girl frined while he was with me.yeah all the bruises he had was from me defending myself against him. he is crazy and insane and needs something more then therapy. i don't think anything can help him now. his is to insane. if anything it goes both ways but i seem to be more recilent then he is and am living a good live. wish I could say the same for him. funny how I just happen to come acrossed this sit one day and find this here.fate is a funny thing.

December 27, 2005
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yup I used him and it felt good after all the crap he put me though. he only tells you a bullsh+t story and only halve is true. he used to bet me up and once he even left me stranded in a diffrent town. every month is was a new girl that he cheated on me with and then every three month I found out about five more girls. he even slept with his best frineds girl frined while he was with me.yeah all the bruises he had was from me defending myself against him. he is crazy and insane and needs something more then therapy. i don't think anything can help him now. his is to insane. if anything it goes both ways but i seem to be more recilent then he is and am living a good live. wish I could say the same for him. funny how I just happen to come acrossed this sit one day and find this here.fate is a funny thing.

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