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September 14, 1999
8:59 pm
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Not sure about the appropriate way to approach this. Recently broke up with my boyfriend after 9 months of very serious dating (marriage talk,etc.) About 4 months ago he has been seriously distancing himself, wanting to be alone all the time, quit his job, not looking for anything else. The only thing he is interested in is smoking pot with his buddies. I see it as a depression with possible substance abuse. His family is unaware, but totally confused about the change in personality. Question is: SHOULD I SAY/DO ANYTHING? or is my role to get out and let him figure it out?

September 15, 1999
9:24 am
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run while you can,most of the women on the codependent threads, break up or make up have been involved with substance using men, if you have only been with this guy for 9 months cut your losses and save your soul.
I have seen the personality changes in partners,and friends partners who only smoke pot. Especially chronic users.

September 15, 1999
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Get out and let him figure it out. Well said Alex, it is the best and quickest way for him to realise he has a problem if someone so important leaves his life.

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