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What's your oppinion on this?
June 6, 2007
2:55 pm
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Ok, so I'm sure everyone wants to hear the progress on this =)

So I ended up texting her on Monday. I joked with her a little and tried to have her guess who I am. I asked her how her weekend was etc etc. I asked if she is still interested in grabbing some coffee with me and she said yes. She said she will look up her schedule and see when she has time off from work.

Last night she text me and said that she has Thursday off and that's a good time for her. I ended up asking her if she would like to go for ice cream instead of coffee and she said definitely. According to her she loves ice cream =) Anyways, I asked her when I should pick her up and she said "haha nice try, I'll meet you there" and she went on saying "no offense but I have to get to know you a little more to let you pick me up and drive me somewhere". All that is fine with me and I understood where she is coming from. So I'm going to meet up with her on Thursday for ice cream at the beach.

Any thoughts on this? Any bad signs?

Thanks.

June 6, 2007
3:02 pm
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I don't think there are any bad signs.

It seems like a healthy exchange.

You were a gentleman and offered to pick her up. She was using common sense when she declined, offering to meet you there. It's almost a given these days.

In time, she'll get comfortable with you and allow you to pick her up.

remember, slow and steady wins the race....sounds all good.

June 8, 2007
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Update =)

I met up with her for ice cream. I was expecting her to just stay for about half an hour and make up some excuse and leave. At first that's what it seemed like also.

However, I don't know what happened, things turned around and it felt like she got so interested in me that we ended up spending about 4 hours just getting to know each other. It was honestly surreal, I was not expecting any of that. It felt like I'm back in junior high/high school.

She kept mentioning that she did not want to leave and just wanted to sit with me and talk some more. In all honesty I did not want to leave also. When I walked her to her car, I asked her when I will see her next time and she said "it all depends on when you call"...so when is a good time to call and ask her to another date?

June 8, 2007
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24-48 hours...don't look too eager...and it won't make you look like the "stalker" she worries you are...lol.

I am glad you had fun....it sounds wonderful.

June 8, 2007
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I think you should have raced to a church/synagogue/mosque and called her repeatedly from there..told here where you were and pledged your undying infatution for her for all eternity...Just kidding. split the difference call in 36 hours, even if it means calling her at 4:30 AM...again..kidding. wait at least a day.

June 8, 2007
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hahaha that cracked me up. Thanks for the good laugh.

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