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What is wrong?
January 17, 2007
9:26 pm
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My fiance is a widower of 3 years. His 31 and 26 year old kids live with him. He has had a quad. by pass. BUT....
He can't tell his daughter don't smoke in house, even though he hates it.
He is allowing his son to live at home and not work. Instead he pays his Son's car and health insur. food, cigs. even though he doesn't want to do this. He says he doesn't
know why he can't confront them. What is wrong!?

January 19, 2007
10:29 pm
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He's afraid of losing them. It seems as if he is clinging to them to make him feel as if he is still a parent to them. My brother is 32 years old and he still calls our dad for money, even though he has a great job. Maybe it's your fiance being an enabler. The more he does for them and let's them get away with it, keeps them under his thumb?

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