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What is the feeling of being lonely?
November 18, 2000
7:13 am
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The word "loneliness" sounds something arbitrary here, but, I'm 24, and a college student. It's time to find my soul mate, I think, which means a freind or senior who can open up my mind and touch my soul.
I'm ordinary men with some intimate friends, but no girlfriend. Where can I find the way to meet such people?

November 18, 2000
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oooohhhhh..Saying "it's time to find my soulmate" is rather like looking at a 6 month old and saying..."it's time you grew teeth now."

somewhere out in this big world a person is being prepard to be your soulmate. If you begin actively LOOKING you may jump into somtihing that is not "right"

(This site has had the discussion before--how many soulmates does one person have also Is LOVE the reason we should be together - realizing that joining for romantic "love" is a Strictly Western idea.)

ANYWAY--find the soul mate in your own soul. When you are on your way to being a complete, aware total person yourself (a life long work in progress)
then you will attract the same type of person.

You'll never find any one other person who will "complete " you. Two halves never make a good whole when it is relationship time..however two people, complete in themselves make a great couple.

Just my personal thoughts.

Good luck. She's out there somewhere.
Gettig ready for you..Are you getting your SELF ready for her?

November 29, 2000
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it's just strange how we are magnetically drawn towards another individual to make ourselves feel complete in our life.. it's strange how there is this strong need for someone else to cater to our feelings.. there are people who have been given everything in life but their heart still desire for another soul to make themselves feel complete... why is this so? should we blame this on the greek gods for splitting us into halves?

love is one of the most beautiful experience uncomparable to anything else. but it can be the most lethal if not successful.. i think the primary purpose of life is to be happy.. and if love brings the most happiness out of everything else.. then i will never give up on it .. even if it means painful heartbreaks... once love is succesfully achieved.. life will feel like a newly bloomed flower.

so go out there and "find the one that you love and who loves you"! there will probably come a day when you will feel tired of the constant daily routine.. and your surroundings.. and you will come to realize that having that special special person in your life will throw light on everything that seems shadowy and dark..

November 30, 2000
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First appreciate that you do have intimate friends as you say. If you do have them.. you are not all that lonely. Finding your soul mate is not something you can just go out and do, and even if you do find them.. you may be dissapointed to find out you can not be with them. This is worse them being alone in the first place..Anyhow My advice is you meet as many people as you can and the rest will just fall in place. What i mean by that is you open yourself up to new things and new people and not just the same friends you are with everyday.

Janes had the right idea.. You are attracted to people who carry traits you admire or traits that accentuate you. Eventually you will find this person but not when you expect it.

You mentioned something about wanting a friend OR a senior. Well Seniors can be the most interesting people in the world to talk to. They teach you to appreciate the life you have now. Appreciate the friends and family you have. Anyway before i ramble on too much.. Just keep your eyes and heart open for people and you will no longer feel so lonely 🙂

November 30, 2000
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In western culture, I think the media has really propogated the idea of ideal love and soulmates. How many movies do you see where you watch two people throughout the course of the movie traverse a winding path through one ridiculous relationship after another until they finally reach the only logical conclusion that they have to be together because they are "perfect" for eachother? That's not the way real life works, really.

Janes is right, you have to be happy with yourself before you can become part of that happy couple.

Quit looking for love, because love tends to find you only when you aren't looking for it.

December 1, 2000
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Love is a beautiful thing if you find one:)

I got it before although it has turn to sour since years.

But I will nto discourage others for wanting it.
go for it. good Luck!!! enjoy it if it's there 🙂

Cheers

December 1, 2000
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Love: An intense affectionate concern for another person. This is a definition from a dictionary. I thought I had found my soul mate. In fact, I use these words with him a lot. "SOUL MATE". We have been together for 7 years. 3 weeks ago my world fell apart. First I found out about an affair he had. I thought that was bad....then 3 days later I found out he abused my daughter 5 years ago. "SOUL MATE". I thought I knew him.....I thought he loved me...and I still love him. SO CONFUSED! I feel very lonely!

December 1, 2000
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i dont really believe in a perfect relationship or an imperfect one..the outcome of any relationship is never predictable.. some people love eachother until they grow old while other love relatioships last for only a brief while.. i think it's better that we shouldn't deprive ourselves of love/relationship becuase it's such a wonderful experience.. living life is to experience and among one of the most wonderful experience is to share your life with someone.. i would hate to hit 40 one day, sitting around reading the personal dating classifieds or watch dating games.. i've known people who live most of their life being single and claim to be happy with their life.. but i've never seen them smile wider than a mile when they come upon meeting someone special... it just completely changes them..
relationships are absolutely unpredictable.. even if you think you are well prepared to be in one.. you will eventualy face with a good or bad outcome.

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