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October 2, 1999
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Hi Everyone....

My computer has been broke for about 2 months so I have not been able to come to these discussion threads in a while... I feel lost.... there is just so much it looks like I have missed....
I am still struggling and trying to overcome the things in my life that are bringing me down. It is a constant daily battle with my lack of motivation and negative thoughts.
Is there anyone out there feeling lost too?

🙁 Jaskid

October 2, 1999
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welcome back

October 4, 1999
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VJR,

Thanks, it's good to be back! I really need some support right now. My husband doesn't seem to know how to give me the support I need right now. All he can seem to do lately is get mad at me and tell me what I am doing wrong. I know a lot of it is me, I just wish he would handle things that come up with me in a different way.... more sensitive... I feel very emotional right now.

Jaskid

October 4, 1999
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Jaskid, from all i have read of your posts, I want to ask you, Why are you still with this guy?
He sounds like he is abusing you and you are blaming yourself, typical battered women behavior. Let me tell you, life is short and you deserve better. blessings

October 4, 1999
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Jaskid
I tend to agree with tears. I am no one to talk but QUIT BLAMING YOURSELF! Sorry, had to do that 8D
Pray. Love is the answer. I know that doesn't make sense - until you do it. I have tasted it, seen it. And it starts with love of God and love of yourself. It's hard to do , but with practice becomes easier. I have started. I'm far from perfect at it but I no longer see any truth in criticism thrown my way other than that which is valid. And I know what is valid and am taking responsibility for it. The criticism hasn't stopped yet but I no longer worry about it or lose sleep over it. The proof that I am improving is in observances my family have made, that I'm happier and the head of a retreat I'm involved with has asked me to be a 'shepherd' at the next retreat. That means I will be watching over the spiritual welfare and dealing with any problems that arise in my group (with God as my shepherd of course). And I have to give a talk to the larger group (which I'm kind of scared of - terrified to be exact) but I'm feeling I should do it so it must be time.
If you can stop dwellinggggg on him, his criticism and how to please him, you will be able to grow in yourself. Maybe that means forcing yourself to do some things for yourself - reading, etc to get started. Action creates motivation which creates more action, not the other way around
Blessings Jaskid

October 4, 1999
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VRJ,

Thank you, I knew there was a reason why I like this sight so much!! It makes me take a look at myself and try and change what is holding me back from any growth.
I know action creates motivation... but how do you create the action when the motivation is no where to be found?

Jaskid

October 4, 1999
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Surrender your lack of motivation to god and ask for strength in taking the action that is needed to grow in love in yourself. Blessings
Congrats vrj! YOu will make a great spiritual group leader and public speaker, you are fantastic adn believe it girl. love ya

October 4, 1999
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hey jaskid, tears, are you on now? We could chat
i don't think we have a room here now but:
http://www.queendom.com
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everyone welcome

October 4, 1999
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daizy too!!!

October 4, 1999
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VRJ,
I went to the chat room, where are you?

October 4, 1999
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Well,
gotta get to bed, catch up with all of you later!
Love you guys,
Jaskid

October 5, 1999
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Daizy and I were there? You must have got the time wrong maybe???

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