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What gives? Embracing change...
March 15, 2006
11:58 am
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My Bf decided he wanted to take a break. After a lot of crying I decided it was best too. He said he can't give me as much time as I want but he still wanted to talk and hang out just not all of the time. I agreed and said ok its probably best. I want us both to be happy and it will give me some time to take care of me. He said after his divorce he is scared of totally serious relationship.

Anyway I just finaly let go and embraced the change! Then last night after this conversation he comes over and we have dinner and a great time.

He is acting like he did at the begining of our relationships. Is it possible me letting go of specific expectations has made him feel comfortable with me again? I dont get it.....

March 15, 2006
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Just be certain that it's true change that you are embracing... and not that you're embracing whatever crumbs he's willing to throw your way so that he can have his cake and eat it too.

Watch out for yourself, because no one else will.

March 15, 2006
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Very good point!

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