Avatar
Please consider registering
guest
sp_LogInOut Log In sp_Registration Register
Register | Lost password?
Advanced Search
Forum Scope


Match



Forum Options



Minimum search word length is 3 characters - maximum search word length is 84 characters
sp_TopicIcon
What ever happened to...
April 21, 2009
1:33 pm
Avatar
It No Longer Matters
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 72
Member Since:
September 27, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

A while back we had a poster who was in a bad relationship. Her husband was abusive and she had left once but he found her. She was making plans to leave.

Another thread jogged my memory. I am thinking this was almost a year ago now.

Did she leave? Is she OK? Does anyone remember who I am talking about?

Bitsy

April 21, 2009
1:35 pm
Avatar
CAMER
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 100
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

i remember Ms. Resilent...a nice woman stuck with an abusive hubby, who was a cop.......not sure if this is the one but there seem to be lostsa people posting and they stay for a bit...and then we never hear from them 🙁

April 21, 2009
1:37 pm
Avatar
It No Longer Matters
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 72
Member Since:
September 27, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

THAT'S!!!! the one I was remembering. I hope she is doing well. I do wish those who are able to move on would come let us know they are doing well. Like Doris Day. She always said something that made me stop and think.

Bitsy

April 21, 2009
1:41 pm
Avatar
CAMER
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 100
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

yeah, where is doris...she was posting for almost a year, and i haven't seen her posting in a few months.

Yes, Ms. Resilent...a very nice woman, posted here for a few months, was getting ready to leave her hubby, and then the hubbys brother & Sis in law were staying with them.....then she hasn't posted since, not sure how long ago, but it seems like 6 mos or so or longer since she posted....i hope and pray she got out of the relationship.

April 23, 2009
10:59 am
Avatar
samantha2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 47
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I miss Doris, too - was just thinking about her the past couple of days as a matter of fact.

She was always so upbeat and positive and seemed to shed a ray of sunshine and caring whenever she posted. My memory could be faulty, but it seems to me that someone criticized her for being so positive, telling her she was in denial and needed to get in therapy. I don't think she ever posted again after that. It's too bad if that's the reason - sometimes it's best to ignore some things.

Of course, tax season is just over - doesn't she do taxes? Maybe she was just busy.

Or her life could be just on a good note and she's busy getting on with it.

I don't know, but I miss her, too.

April 23, 2009
11:06 am
Avatar
PreciousG
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I would like to know whatever happened to Giggles, Lostagain27, and Longlost?

One day they were all posting and then POOF!! They are gone.

If any of you are reading, I miss you all and I hope you are all doing well.

April 23, 2009
11:25 am
Avatar
CAMER
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 100
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

hi Sam!! haven't seen you posting in a bit...and I too, remember that persons "comments" to Doris... ...and "that person" no longer posts now either...but i wish Doris would come back.

and yes, Giggles, she was here for a bit and then gonzo.

ahhhh hopefully they shall return and let us know how they are doing.

April 23, 2009
11:48 am
Avatar
.
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 49
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I have to agree with the fact that it was odd about Lostagain. She was talking and had no indications of leaving and bam. I just hope she is ok.

April 23, 2009
12:01 pm
Avatar
samantha2
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 47
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Hi Camer!

I read a lot, but haven't posted much. I work in education and this year we've been going through our 6 year audit. It's all I've done or thought about for months - now finally over and went well - thank goodness.

I hope you are well - I always like your thoughts and comments.

April 23, 2009
12:04 pm
Avatar
PreciousG
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Exactly Billy. I thought it was a bit strange myself. This definetly one draw back to this site being anonymous. Ya know?

April 23, 2009
12:07 pm
Avatar
.
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 49
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Yea I am just curious bc the SC has emails if she could just see if she is ok. I mean she was fine. Started a new thread and then bam. Plus her sisterand sister n law being not so great. So I was just curious. Almost wanted to check the paper to see if there had been a problem in her state.

April 23, 2009
12:43 pm
Avatar
PreciousG
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Billy, again I thought the same.

April 23, 2009
12:46 pm
Avatar
.
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 49
Member Since:
September 29, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Great minds think alike. Maybe you should try. Just to make sure she is ok. I mean out of no where. Giggles kind of gave us something. I mean with her kid and what not.

April 23, 2009
1:06 pm
Avatar
PreciousG
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I know. Giggles had either gone to court or was just about to go about custody.

I often thing of Resilient. I hope she is ok and able to one day post and let us know how she is doing.

Oh what bout Crazypink! If you are reading drop a line.

April 23, 2009
1:11 pm
Avatar
CAMER
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 100
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

yes, giggles, she was going to court with the ex...and then haven't heard from her since.

And Ms Resilent, i know she wanted to get away badly from hubby, but not sure if she ever did.

April 23, 2009
1:43 pm
Avatar
sad sack
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 78
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Hi,

I, too, often wonder what happens to individuals who just seemingly disappear suddenly from these threads.

I have noticed a pattern though. When someone remains or returns to an unhealthy relationship despite the overwhelming advice on here to leave, that poster often just leaves the boards(rather than hear it all).

I have a few "whatever happened to?" of my own. When I first came here, Sandpipper and Desert Moon were both tremendously supportive. I miss them both. If either one of you still reads, drop me a line. I would love to know how you are doing in your respective lives. Desert Moon I remember, you were involved with M. and Sandpipper, you were involved with FG. I really miss the input of the both of you.

sad

April 23, 2009
1:50 pm
Avatar
CAMER
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 100
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

i remember years ago Santino, breaking up with his g'friend.....and then g'friend getting married, he has "popped" back in once or two over the years.

another one i miss is "smiles" she used to post back a few years ago, married with hubby and codependent issues...i haven't seen her posting in about 2 years.

April 23, 2009
1:53 pm
Avatar
Shaney
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 4
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

There are a few people that I think of often - I always wonder if they're reading and what became of their lives.

I miss Lass, 22haha, DDog, and thedogsmom. Where did those gals go? Anyway --- miss 'em. :o)

April 23, 2009
1:58 pm
Avatar
Shaney
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 4
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

OH - and I wonder if horsefly ever took care of that weed possession charge? Poor thing - haven't seen her since then. As much as we fought, we did have our moments. :o)

April 23, 2009
2:00 pm
Avatar
CAMER
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 100
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

hi ((shaney)) yes HF, where is she??

and Ddog, and Dawg...i sometimes get them mixed up DDog is the girl, and Dawg is the guy.

April 23, 2009
2:05 pm
Avatar
Shaney
Member
Members
Forum Posts: 4
Member Since:
September 30, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

hey there Camer :o) - Last she wrote, she had to go to jail for weed possession - but I thought it was only for a month? I don't remember what thread that was when she was explaining her situation. I felt bad because she had to drop Sister off at her friends, just in case. Ugh.

DDog is the girl.

April 23, 2009
2:34 pm
Avatar
PreciousG
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

Oh My Gosh! Yes I wonder how HF is doing. I must have missed the whole weed possession charge andjail inscident. Bless her heart.

HF if you are reading, I am thinking of you!

April 23, 2009
3:44 pm
Avatar
soofoo
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I miss horsefly too. I am sorry that I was not here when she was having those troubles. I needed a break.

I agree with sad sack, but I probably have a different take on it.

I think people leave when they get lectured or bossed around. A lot of people think they know what's best for others and wind up chasing people off with their disapproval.

It is very rare to find support here if you want to stay in your relationship. Usually, if you talk about the problems of a relationship, folks just tell you to get rid of it, not knowing much at all. So I don't really see why anyone would stick around here if they want to work on their relationship.

People really need to decide for themselves whether they want to leave a relationship. The lecturing, guilt trips and bossiness are just very off-putting and not supportive, even though most folks mean well.

Just my opinion. Love to all, including the bossies and the guilt-trippers! 😉

April 23, 2009
10:39 pm
Avatar
Healing.. and peace
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: -1
Member Since:
September 27, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I miss talking to HF too, I thought she hasn't been around because she had to have back surgery, anyway that's what I recall... maybe I'm incorrect though.

I hope she is well, and we all hear from her soon..... so she can let us know she is doing good!

(((Horsefly)))

April 23, 2009
11:02 pm
Avatar
autumn128
New Member
Members
Forum Posts: 1
Member Since:
September 24, 2010
sp_UserOfflineSmall Offline

I think about Celtic a lot. Miss her.

Lot's of people have come and gone. I remember a lot of the people that all of you have mentioned.

Hope they are all doing well.

What about Nappy? Moon and stars?

I could go on and on...

Forum Timezone: UTC -8
Most Users Ever Online: 349
Currently Online:
30
Guest(s)
Currently Browsing this Page:
1 Guest(s)
Top Posters:
onedaythiswillpass: 1134
zarathustra: 562
StronginHim77: 453
free: 433
2013ways: 431
curious64: 408
Member Stats:
Guest Posters: 49
Members: 111020
Moderators: 5
Admins: 3
Forum Stats:
Groups: 8
Forums: 74
Topics: 38570
Posts: 714311
Newest Members:
cosmo789, bravelassie, Chloe12, future life, austinjacob, Hadity1
Moderators: arochaIB: 1, devadmin: 9, Tincho: 0, Donn Gruta: 0, Germain Palacios: 0
Administrators: admin: 21, ShiningLight: 572, emily430: 29

Copyright © 2020 MH Sub I, LLC. All rights reserved.
Terms of Use | Privacy Policy | Cookie Policy | Health Disclaimer | Do Not Sell My Personal Information