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what do you think?? is he unfaithful??
March 17, 2005
2:01 pm
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sugarmagnolia
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I've been dating this guy for about a year. He seems like the all-american, meet and potatoes type guy. Very sweet, close to his mom and sister, very considerate, knows how to treat a girl, blah blah blah...

My friends love him to death and think he adores me. He tells me all the time that he loves me and I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him. He is the first guy I trusted completely.

Until now...One night he stayed over, I was sick and on Nyquil and went to bed early while he used my computer. I remember seeing him leave in the morning. Shortly after, my phone rang. I answer the phone and this guy, who sounds exactly like my boyfriend starts talking to me. Saying exactly the same kind of things that my bf says. "I'm laying in bed thinking about you, i miss you, can't wait to be with you", He even asked me what I wore to bed!!?? I'm thinking, you saw what I wore to bed!! I just saw you a half hour ago!! I swear it was my boyfriend.

Of course he completely denies it and keeps telling me he loves me and I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him. He wants me to file a police report and try to find out who called.

I don't understand. Is someone messing with me?? Or was it him, making a wrong number talking to his mistress?? I asked my roommate if it was anyone for her, she said she remembers hearing the phone ring in the morning (so its not in my head), but nobody has that house number for her yet(she just moved in).

March 17, 2005
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I say get caller id just in case it happens again. how long have you been dating this guy? is this the only time you have ever doubted him? if so, maybe this is an isolated incident. its possible that it was a wrong number or a prank. listen to your gut feelings, though. you know youself the best...

March 17, 2005
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I say to go with your gut also. Maybe follow him up on that police report to find out who called, or talk to your phone company, see if they can track your monthly calls... worth following up on if you are really concerned, even if it wasn't him its hard to trust with soemthing like that in the back of your mind.

March 17, 2005
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ekkkkkk, that's a tough one. I trusted my boyfriend like crazy and started noticing subtle things like this and he was in fact cheating.
I say call the phone company to see who it was.

It's just TOO MUCH of a huge coincidence that this person that called said the exact sames things as your B/F did !

My boyfriend sent me an email once that said all the things he usually says to me, but in the email called me honey. He never once called me honey. He was cheating and that email was not for me....he entered my name by accident...opppss (loser)

Keep an eye open...my ex loved me to death also
Sorry if this is not what you want to hear, but you got to watch your back !

March 18, 2005
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Find out who it was. I really hope that it wasn't your man.

Watch it be an untraceable call... That would suck ass. =(

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