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What am I doing???
July 7, 2002
11:42 am
lost soul
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ya, this is just the question I want to ask myself, what am I doing??? I am staying in a empty marriage just for the sick of my daughter!!!! I want her it have a father just like anyone else but i an living a life of a widow 🙁

Why am i still await after taking 2 sleeping pill. without the sleep immediatelt it's a torture to me!!! I still have to wake up early next morning to be ready to work to earn a living.... oh my god.... why me ???eht this kind of hell???? what have i done to deserved this kind of live!!!
sleep is the best thing that i can do to not think about my miseryn that;s why I have been relying on the pill for the solid 6 years!!!

my god, what's happening on me??? how long can I keep being possitive to lead my life???
No one knows, me too I dun know????

July 8, 2002
11:40 am
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Hey LS, so sorry you are having a tough time. *hug* One thing I'm sure you realize is that kids know when the marriage between mom and dad isn't healthy. No matter what kind of show you put on, they just know. Please don't choose to stay in this "for the sake of your daughter". If your husband is a good man deep down, he will continue to provide financially for her and still be a father to her even if you two aren't together any more. And if he doesn't, then he wasn't being much of a dad to her anyway.

Little girls learn how to act from their mommies, whether we know it or not. You are teaching her to settle and to compromise, whether you think you are or not.

'Nuff said about that. I know you are upset, not sleeping well, taking sleeping aids, and you are TIRED. I hear you. And I can understand why you would be. You aren't thinking clearly because you are so damn tired. Maybe the first step is to take care of Lost Soul. You have a career, you have a daughter you love a lot. That's wonderful. How are you doing physically? Try to forget about husband and what you aren't getting from him for a few minutes. Are you getting enough vitamins and eating regular meals? Do you get fresh air or exercise often (oy veigh, more work!)? How about alcohol?

Let's start with making LS's life more liveable where she is right now, and then find out what she sees as her vision clears up. You'd be surprised what a little change here or there can do... wonders...

We're listening...

July 8, 2002
1:33 pm
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Hey, lost soul, hope things look brighter today! And if not, be consoled that you are not without company on this site re: sleeplessness, or uncertainty. If the sleeping pills you are taking are not doing the trick, you might contemplate getting a different prescription. You really can't function without a good night's sleep. And believe me there is life for you and your daughter without her father, as long as he remains a constant in her life even if you two are not living together anymmore. Your daughter is probably very much aware of your unhappiness...i just wonder how old she is and whether she is old enough to discuss this with.

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