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What about SEX
March 9, 2006
10:31 pm
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inalotofpain66
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I am Sooooooo not psyched at the prospect of being single and not getting laid. The BEST part of our relationship was the sex......and I HATE being alone in bed at night........do I have to say goodbye to the nooky in order to find myself again? Hey, if I wanted to be a freaking monk, I'd live in Tibet!

March 9, 2006
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not to be crude, but I think you should get yourself a good vibrator. Sex, although it is a perk of being attached, it is also a way to distract yourself so maybe dwelling on it and the lack of it is something that is preventing you from really moving on. I dunno. But at this point would it really be good for you? If it would then have a few flings. If not, take time to look at that.

March 9, 2006
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even when you are attached they come in handy. LOL

March 10, 2006
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I was afraid to be alone, but in order to find myself and be me, I had to do it. No contact, no visits, no emails, no phone calls, nothing....My girl and I loved sex and loved each other, but we had to split in order for me to find me. After 90 days so far, with no sex, let me tell you, I am the happiest man around. I have found me, I am being me, and I am making changes that never seemed possible for me. I had to get rid of my distraction(my girl)...Now, when and if we get back together or when sex or making love is there, it will be very incredible for me next time. I have a whole different outlook on life. Yes, it will be way better, I guarantee it...Sure, go ahead and use toys for now....why not!!!! Have fun!!! lol

March 10, 2006
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Are you being serious? The way you talk about getting laid, I cannot really take you seriously here.

March 10, 2006
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Oops, I'm a GUY.....toys are fun, but better when there is someone else to share šŸ˜‰

March 10, 2006
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oh LOLOLLOOLOL ha ha

March 10, 2006
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yea, u two had me wondering what he would do with a vibrater.:)

March 10, 2006
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LOLOLOL thats so funny. Im going to be laughing at it for days.

March 10, 2006
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had my imagination doing all kinds of tricks....just couldn't picture it

March 10, 2006
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March 10, 2006
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sORRY BOUT that blank one up there, def. go for the vibrator.

March 10, 2006
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LOLOLOL

March 10, 2006
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rofl...

March 10, 2006
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Hi Guys
Vibrators are fun, and they are much better than having an assholes head on the pillow, giving you brain damage. At least you can turn them off??????

Liamo

March 10, 2006
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inalotofpain IS A GUY. šŸ˜‰

such confusion......

March 10, 2006
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LMAO!!!!

in-i hope u know u are thought about this weekend. i'm sorry for your loss. know it hurts. like y said, it blows. do what u gotta do, but know u are not alone....u got all these fine people on aac.:)

March 10, 2006
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hah ha great thread but seriously folks tell me more about swearing off sex. I'm taking "emotionally extricating myself" to learn to be emotionally independent and find "self". Sometimes I have a hard time saying no to sex when hes "ready to go". We went 3 years without so much as kissing - yes 3 years, his choice not mine - so its not that I cant go without it. Now that I am getting stronger he is a lot more interested in me sexually but I just feel I "shouldnt" to be true to my "process" and I am not interested in "him" anymore but sometimes I don't say no bc I like sex as much as the next girl. Thoughts? Experiences. Thx

March 10, 2006
3:39 pm
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sex is a scary thing

March 10, 2006
3:43 pm
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Sex can be something that is very destructive if there are no clear boundaries.

I've screwed up (no pun intended) so many relationships b/c I would confuse it with love, caring, etc.

It really is best for a woman to wait, imho.

March 16, 2006
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Well if you dont feel anything for him then try your best to not sleep with him. I know you prefer to not have sex with him then to get stuck on him all your life. Is he your husband?Do you love him? Maybe that will tell me more and i can give you more help.
Sole**

March 16, 2006
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I agree with lotustampa, Sex, most of the time is equated with love its difficult to seperate the two. Make the boundries, be honest and use your head.

March 16, 2006
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yes, i back lotus up all the way. i am another woman who equates sex with love. for me, it is either making love or nothing at all. some of my friends say i am wrong , some understand but ultimately i have to be true to me......

March 16, 2006
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hi sole... if you mean me... "he" is commonlaw hubby of 12 years, I asked him to marry me 6 years ago he said no. I care for him and wish good things for him but don't know if I love him anymore tho at one point I was *so in love with him*. Now I am not sure if that was "love" or "emotional dependence". We have one child if that helps. Thx! Bubs

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