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What a man
October 3, 2001
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Sometimes I feel so lucky. Like right now, I really appreciate my boyfriend. I woke him up at two this morning, with something on my mind. He woke on up, sat up and with the most patient tone of voice, asked me to tell him what was on my mind. He makes me feel really loved sometimes!

Just wanted to share that...

Thanks!

October 3, 2001
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Circle the calender. Lucky you.

October 3, 2001
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Well, I just thought it might be acceptable to post something positive for a change.

October 3, 2001
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I'm really feeling attacked by Molly here...

October 3, 2001
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I think it's great you posted something positive. Not everything has to be a problem that needs to be worked out - sometimes it feels good to share the positive stuff too. Maybe Molly is still working through a relationship she didn't get that kind of support in and she would have "circled the calender" when she got the kind of positive support you seem to have. Don't take it as an attack and don't let it keep you from sharing the positive stuff anytime the mood strikes!

October 3, 2001
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Thanks DVSGirl! I will continue to post the good stuff - and can take Molly's advice with a smile!

October 3, 2001
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I am sorry, don't get how that was an attack, I meant it, circle the calender, those moments are precious, they need to be remembered. I kept a journal. True, like posted above, my relationship sucks, but if you have been here a while you would know that I happen to live with Sybil, see Ranmar 1,2,3,4,yada yada. Unless you want to go back a few years on these threads. 🙂
I meant it with the same spirit as a holiday to remember, lucky you.
Positive posts are rare, thus my response, so smile, Molly means no evil, usually, and if I do, you won't think your attacked unfortunately youll really know it. So, smile on, sweetie, and do something to recognize him men like flowers too. A little note, thank you for being there. no offense ment.sorry

October 3, 2001
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Ya really got me to thinking recently there has been alot of stuff about my postings, and perhaps it is time to retire this thread. I have gotten alot, and given alot, and life is hard enough in the real world, don't need to ruffle feathers in cyber space. I truly am gonna give this some thought then go toss some rocks in this damn rock garden I am doing for therapy, ha following my own advice to keep busy. The last thing I intend to do is attack, or hurt, or further some ones problem. Again Pill I apologize.

October 3, 2001
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Pill

that is a rare quality you don't see in men any more. sincere doesn't exist any more. it seems that men are strictly out for themselves. Glad you have a good one.

October 9, 2001
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that is so great! I really think that there are alot of great men out there...you just have to pry to find them. I usually find that these guys are so shy that you have to make the first move. My boyfriend would do anything for me...too bad he lives 8 hours away. We met three and a half years ago and I had to make the first move. When I asked him if he would have done it, if I hadn't...he said probably not.

He was hurt in alot of relationships before and just thought of them in a negative light and was very cautious. I think there are alot of jerkss out there, male and female. I think there are alot of people that were so scared emotionally that they just go on with their life hoping that one day that special someone will just "pop" out at them. I dont know just food for thought.

October 9, 2001
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He also has a lot if integrity. I'm so proud that he chooses to be with me.

October 10, 2001
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Well we talked about the female roomie thing and came to a compromise. But, honestly I feel so tired from all the stress and anxiety, I'm not so sure how much i really want to get back into this with him. I'm afraid the next time will be just too much and I'll have to leave him for good.

I'm torn between loving him, respecting, and wanting to share my life with him - and wanting peace, calmness, and clarity. It seems I can't have both with him. It's either a sources of tension, or a real close, but very fragile bond of trust. I'm just confused...

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