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What a Dick
February 3, 2005
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So my friend emails me this,

I seriously need your help. What can I say to this girl to stop dating her but that will leave the door open if I change my mind? Seriously, help me out!

And I realized that men are most all like this, so this is it first hand, men who just keep women around in case.

so I wrote this,

Seriously? You are a dick. My god think about her for a change think about how that might feel to have someone fuck with your feelings like that. I think honestly that you either like her and want to date her or don't. And if you want to date other people then be honest with her. I don't know you do this ALL the time. Is it that hard to pick one person to date?

This makes me never want to date again.

February 3, 2005
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Aces,

I don't blame you for how you feel. What kind of "friend" would be so insensitive?

Dating is sometimes rough and painful. When you're ready, though, I think you'll have a lot of fun.

Love,

Ren'ai

February 3, 2005
2:08 pm
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way to go Aces, you said it all!!!

February 3, 2005
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Aces, I am proud of you for the response you gave your "friend"
~~~ I had one male freindtel me a while ago that he "keeps his dates well circulated.... LIke theres always one there "waiting" and he laughed... I asked him IF theyall thought he was Exclusive or not, nd he said that NONE of them were exclusive, so Why should he be???
I wanted t ovomit anyway, but Im no longer friends with this person either, But they are out there....all over the place.

February 3, 2005
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then he responds back and is like I know what you say is right blah blah, I just find it hunourous that we try to figure men out and Im sure this poor girl is sitting there trying to figure him out when in acutality he is just a dick and using her.

I think it is that simple in most of our situations.

February 3, 2005
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Agreed! Also I think that people that need to have more than one person waiting are WEAK. You need a plan b only because you aren't enough for yourself. (I told jack this the other day... he hates being called weak at anything...giggle)

February 3, 2005
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ahh pushing the buttons to enact reactions. The things we do : ) .

February 3, 2005
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dating to me is fun only because i can have company without committment. I don't think I can handle the committment right now. I can't say your friend is a dick, because I left the door open for so long - that was my choice. You close the door, they go away and grab on to some other unsuspecting female.

The Loser never sees their responsibility or involvement in the difficulties of the relationships. They chose to live and behave in this manner for their entire adult lives. They don't see themselves at fault, they blame the female for having "issues".

February 3, 2005
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Well I think he is a dick mainly because he is a total commitment phobic he will sleep with these women lose interest and dump them and then they wonder what the hell happened, and then the ones he doesn't sleep with he really likes like new girl, I think this is the 15th girl since last August. I try not to be too hard on him but I know how it feels on the girls end and it sucks, of course I have done the same thing, I guess when you realize how your actions affect others you don't do them anymore.

February 3, 2005
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Exactly, I used to love the idea of having these poor guys waiting, and not telling them I was ummm.... not exclusive (at all). Thats why I felt like I deserved the payback from jack. Even though now we are much smarter and realize we value ourselves...right;)

As for pushing buttons, I am guilty of that... I like to make him snap and realize what a bastard he is as he is not a complete pshcypath and does feel remorse. But that doesn't mean I have to show him the way. I don't do it anymore, especially after the choking incident. Rather not go there again.

Funny, I was supposed to call him last night, I didn't feel like it. So I didn't. I thought, ah I'll call him tomorrow then, as we have business things to take care of. I didn't get around to calling him, he ended up calling me furious at 3 in the afternoon, I just don't want his crazy dysfunctional self in my dysfunctional and unstable world, it just makes it harder for me to see clearly and get better! I was supposed to call him back but I havn't bothered, and won't for tonight. I'm just going to tell him his "favor" to me regarding paying back the debt is off.

February 3, 2005
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honestly, I think he is telling you that because he wants to see if you will jump in and take her place while he makes up his mind. you know? like he wants to sleep with you, wants you to know he isn't serious with anyone else, but is also at least honest with you about not being able to be in a relationship.

February 3, 2005
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Nah, he always tells me when he wants to sleep with me, I just don't sleep with him anymore because it's 15 seconds I could do without.

February 3, 2005
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lol

February 3, 2005
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Dear Aces - what a bastard he is. Yeah, tell him about the 15 seconds thing. That shoudl send the little
F-er packing! Stupid little twit!

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