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May 31, 2007
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It is so nice to see you around. I have missed you.

June 1, 2007
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Thanks taj...I have missed posting on here.

A lot has happened since I had my dilemna with the xbfriend. I still have problems with relationships...I seem to attract unavailable men, but overall I'm doing better than I have been in a long time.

My grandson of course has been the priority. He had his open heart surgery 2 months ago and I'm happy to report that he's doing well. He's 9 months old now and all the doctors tell us that by the time he reaches 1 year, he will have caught up with his weight and overall growth. He's such a happy baby...always smiling - a real trooper. He has gone through so much!

Anyway, I'm going to make it a point to check in on this board every day.

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HSB

June 1, 2007
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Hi. Im glad your grandson is doing well.

My problems is that I don't seem to come close to a relationship. I too attract unavailable men. And I don't get past too many dates. And lately I don't even attract a date. I pretty much go to work and then home. It gets lonely but better than being in a bad relationship or one that is rocky. I have more to say but it is early morning and must get ready for work. I try to write later on in the day.

Im glad to hear from you.

June 2, 2007
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Hi taj,

I have to say I agee with you about lonely being better than being in a bad relationship.

I'm going through a phase right now, where I'm seriously considering not even TRYING to date for awhile. I'm pretty burned out on dating men that at first seem great, only to discover later one that they're not really emotionally available.

I'm still seeing the firefighter although I know it's nothing permanent because he has decided that he will be moving out of state when he retires in about a year or so. And, unfortunately, he also goes to WA every 2 months to visit with his ailing aunt but I know he's interested in someone up there as well. She has a 14 yr old and until he is out of the house she doesn't want anything serious.....so, basically, even though he says he loves me, and he's my boyfriend, I know that I'm not the only one in his life. Why do I continue seeing him? It's complicated, but I think basically it's because I enjoy his company, he makes me feel special and we go on a lot of trips and we have a great time every time.

He knows that I'm not going to be closed minded should I meet someone else, but like I said earlier in this post, I think I'm done for awhile. I'll spend time with the "g" and not worry about meeting anyone else.....it usually is a dud anyway...lol.

I think it'll do me good to just focus on my life and let the romance department take care of itself. I have to admit that it is a bit liberating to feel that it's ok not to have someone permanently in my life.

So you see, taj, I can relate to how you're feeling. But maybe it's a good thing to be by ourselves most of the time. It gives us the chance to find our true selves, to kick back when we want to, to not having to be on a schedule because you want to be with your bfriend, etc.

I'm sure that some day we will both find someone when we least expect it.

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HSB

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