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We are supposed to be positive but...
June 1, 2000
2:41 pm
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me.....when I've had to detach and let go in order to try to remain in balance the gift that works for me is forgvness. You don't have to like it, accept the crap, but forgiveness is a powerful gift to allow ourselves to stay the course of our heart....saying "may the sun shine on your face and the wind be at your back...goodbye",goodbye".

June 1, 2000
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Dear, dear Me. I once felt the same as you. I would have much rather put the blame on myself than to ever hurt the image I had of another's love for me. Honey, that isn't love. Far from it. Love is open and honest, not full of falsehoods. Stupid, yes, I too have been stupid in my life. I am now in my 40's and it took me until my late 30's to understand that I didn't have the right to take the blame and guilt that belonged to another. All I succeeded in doing was causing myself hurt, and enabling the other person to continue on. I'm sure there are traits you have that are very positive ones that, if you saw in someone else you would say," Hey, that's a really terrific person. Look deep into the mirror, see your spirit and embrace her. You are by no means without value. Keep trying until you succeed. Peace will be your reward.

June 2, 2000
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Thanks all-

I'll get back to you soon!

Me

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