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Waterman wants to be a better, healthier, nicer person
November 14, 2005
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Waterman has described a painful realtionship, it's emotional aftermath, and some abusive behaviors that he has engaged in. He thinks he may be a stalker. As far as I can tell, waterman does not like how he thinks about the relationship, he does not like his emotional reactions to the relationship ending, and he does not like his own behavior.

Waterman, if you are still here, I invite you to share some more of your story. And I invite people who would want to offer support for waterman's healing process to post here.

I specifically disinvite persons who want mainly to vent at waterman or express anger evoked by stories like his. Let's save those posts for a different thread.

Lets be honest without being prematurely judgemental....

November 14, 2005
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((yes Waterman))) please come back and post...i saw the stalker thread and it did get a lil' out of control with peoples differences. The important thing here is for support for you, and knowing that you want to get better.
((camer))

November 14, 2005
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Hey Waterman,

Warm Welcome to this site! A real place to connect with wise warm people who went thru all sorts of harsh, cruel and unfair circumstances. So, we are all hurting here and you're not alone!

We do not judge anybody here but rather give love and support. Rest assured that I resepct you a lot Waterman. The fact that you confessed that there is something wrong with you and you need healing, counseling and change makes you a GREAT HUMAN BEING!!! You are worthy of all respect and admiration. Sorry for any inconvenience you endured, my heart goes out to you, dear!

~Blessings~Ras

November 14, 2005
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Thank you for posting this, WD.

Hi Waterman: I hope you feel comfortable enough to come back. We're here to listen. SD

November 14, 2005
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Has anyone ever realized that this person could be a TROLL on the site?

November 14, 2005
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OMW: He has posted here before. I remember him.

November 14, 2005
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Much better thread title. A+

November 14, 2005
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OMW,

That may very well be true......but it may not be either.

Whether he is or is not, is not the issue.

The issue is that if he came here for support, he should get it...unless and until he shows us otherwise.

So far, he has done NOTHING to give us that idea.

When the truck driver came here a while back....we gave him support as well and found out that he was not sincere....that doesn't mean that EVERYONE is not sincere.

Can't we at least give Waterman the benefit of the doubt until he shows us differently?

Lolli

November 14, 2005
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Let waterman speak. Your story waterman?

November 14, 2005
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after 127 posts between posters here, i doubt he will be back.

November 14, 2005
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He posted on the other post. He is cured. He beat the odds. Now, that is really statistically significant! He beat the odds, and you all fell for it.

He enjoyed his popcorn, and I am gonna go barf. Thanks for everything.

November 14, 2005
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no way!!

YEAH YOU BET! guess who won and lost on this one...BYE GUYS!

November 14, 2005
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Now I am starting to get annoyed.

onmyway,

I enjoy you and find you to be a generally pleasant and helpful person. But I have very clearly stated my purpose for creating this thread at the top of the thread. I described my reasons for creating this on the "other thread." And I created an entirely different thread for the purpose of expressing feelings and ideas like the one you just posted. So when you read the first post of this thread, authored by me....good ole, trustworthy WD, and then go on to say what you just did, it makes me feel kind of....invisible, stupid, and irrelevant.

I would prefer that you follow my lead for the purposes of this thread and set an example for the "younger" aacers her...let's show 'em how we do it here in support threads when we are in good form. And respecting the language and intent of the first post in a thread is a good place to start.

November 14, 2005
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the guy is not a stalker anymore. He doesn't need help.

November 14, 2005
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WD- this is from the other thread, FYI

waterman
14-Nov-05

I am no longer a stalker. Healing mass was great it was unplugged there was a pianist a guitarist a bass guitarist a percusionest and two female vacalist's. lot's a of candals singinging and praying. I met some great people and was prayed over. This thread tought me alot I called myself a stalker because leagally I was. I know that and did not like me that way or the direction it could take me. I was in a mutual relationship with this person for almost two years. I loved them and showed up. they lied cheeted and blew me off for someone else. It hurt. I wanted answers. They did not want to talk. You cant bother people if they dont want to talk even if it hurt you. This thread is dead at this point the bottom line is no one approves of a stalker (including me)and their is no justification for that type of behavior. Thank you all for making this clear.

Neshema
14-Nov-05

well, hallelulah, you beat the odds! You can go hang out at the beach without a care in the world of all the chaos you caused. Hope you enjoyed your popcorn.

November 14, 2005
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I apologize WD you are right. I know what this feels like. I just started a new one and it is already lost in something else.
love ya.

November 14, 2005
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do we need clarity here?

November 14, 2005
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no way!!

YEAH YOU BET! guess who won and lost on this one...BYE GUYS!

You're kidding right?

I'm sorry OMW....I can't believe that you would resort to being this childish.

I'm out

November 14, 2005
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do we need clarity here?

November 14, 2005
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is this the end? or the beginning?

I think we need to talk further on this. In my opinion.

On the sidelines, reading here more than writing, I am.

November 14, 2005
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is this the end? or the beginning?

I think we need to talk further on this. In my opinion.

On the sidelines, reading here more than writing, I am.

November 14, 2005
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sorry, not being rude, PC is jumping here.

November 14, 2005
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lolli,
Quit judging people. Quit commenting about what rubs you the wrong way. Let things go, let people BE. No one can control a thread. What can be controlled are emotions directed negatively towards another poster. You are free to express yourself, but the namecalling needs to be ousted, agreed? You may say anything to me, I am ok with anything, but tides turn when accusations are made and namecalling is invited in.

On these threads you will see, anger, love, hate, desperation, confusion, etc. but to tell someone they are wrong for how they feel, can hurt. I take offense to your post to me, but I do not take offense to WD's. I know WD does not want to cause any diviisons, and I just do not feel that from you. Sorry, my feelings, and absolutely no harm intended, ok?

November 14, 2005
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WD,,,I'm sorry...I just did it again. I had better leave this one.

November 14, 2005
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WD.....

I apologize for reacting to OMW on your thread. I meant no disrespect to you.

Love,
Lolli

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