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WANTED!! woman..
October 20, 2001
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Every year I update my request for a Wife.
Each time something is slightly different or slightly added. This time I think i have all demands covered.
I want whomever, to tell me if this is a possible combination. These traits are according to my needs and attractions. Please help me find someone close..
WANTED:16oct.01: A christian souled, Nudist Heart, Pagan minded, free-lance Journalist Female....FOR...............

October 20, 2001
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>>>>>A christian, Empathic, Pagan, psychological, spiritual, Artist/Writer, Naturist, Intellectual, FREE-lance Explorer, MALE...........

October 20, 2001
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\\WARNING//.... I will NOT tolerate...narrow minds..and..shallow Spirits!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I will NOT accept DOGMAS of any kind....I do not Trust "Absolutes".......

October 20, 2001
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IF YOU KNOW LOVE, SHARE IT...
If you serve Fear, you will Provoke Anger...
LOVE ME AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF AND I WILL LOVE YOU 8 times my self...............................................

October 20, 2001
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I will Not tolerate........thats a Big red flag to all you ladys out there.

October 20, 2001
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YUP... I agree...never go with someone who "will not tolerate"

Next will be the covering of all skin and not allowing female children to be educated.

WHYCHILD-----why not ACCEPT whomever God chooses to send you instead of making up a list of demands?

October 21, 2001
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to expect is to recieve dissapointment.

love is to love some one with there flaws too.

a man is just a man and a women just a women.

maybe your looking for yourself?

October 22, 2001
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Oh GOD, I can only imagine. I wouldn't be married now if I had made a list. My poor hubby, he would be so lonely and have no one to remind him to wear a sweater or eat breakfast every day. ha ha ha.

You know what? I love my husband for all his stupidity and mistakes and faults. He is my flawed human being, he is constantly learning and growing, just like me. We're the odd couple, I swear. I think that's what's so fun about our relationship. We balance each other out. Where I am too free-spirited and flakey, he conservative and practical. And vice versa. That's what brings the oh-so-essential humor to a relationship. All your foibles.

October 22, 2001
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And who are you to list out demands, Whychild? Are you omniscient? Do you think that you understand your needs so well that you can create a checklist for God to follow? God sends what we need, not what we think we need.

October 23, 2001
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it is only according to what i am attracted to.
pesonality is a major for me....
I've tried relationships without the traits i'm looking for,but, they are all dissapointments!!!!
in my experience i have found most women without these traits to be untrustworthy.....Any girl i have dated or wanted to date i have treated with friendship, respect, honesty, faithfulness, and unconditional love.
Without any explanation they leave me...
It was with the numerous heart akes that caused me to be specific in personality...

October 25, 2001
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YOU must be looking for that elusive SOULMATE, whychild. I can't prove it but I think that you've been sold a bill of goods and may be doomed to disappointment like Lewis said. Isn't "I will not tolerate" an absolute? I live with a man that will not tolerate and I'll tell you what--being intolerable or having traits that someone you care about "won't tolerate" and are a large part of "who you are" is the worst pain any one can imagine. So, why do I stay?
I thought it was because I was tolerant of what he is but that's a big question today. I'll get back to you on that.
Well, I shouldn't beat you up--after all it's not like you are living with someone and trying to mold them into a desired shape. Your just looking for that ready made partner to fit your needs. I hope that someone out there measures up and doesn't have to work to hard to do it. Your situation reminds me of a song by Dan Fogelburg entitled "Imaginary Lovers". Maybe you should check it out.

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