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very unhappy
June 19, 2000
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chelzie
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I have ben married for fourteen years and have two children,I am thirty one.I have been very deppresed bout my marriage but am scared of the effect of divorce will have on my children.I have been tryin to make myself be happy for a while now and i have decided that i can not force myself to be.My husban and i have nothing in common we dont talk much we never do anything together or as a family.We dont even sleep together.I am also scared to leave because i have never been on my own and i dont have a job yet.

June 19, 2000
3:34 pm
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then i started goin in chat rooms and i met this guy we have met several times and talked on the phone as freinds.now he says he is n love with me

June 25, 2000
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Did nobody comment about the dangers of taking up with strangers you meet on the internet?

Why not try a counseling service for women in transition? You can find some leads through the YWCA, for instance.

You got married awfully young. There might not be a thing wrong with your husband except that the two of you grew apart as you started growing up. If there really is no common ground any longer, the last thing you need is another man to complicate the search for yourself that is beginning now. At least that's what I think.

June 25, 2000
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I agree. When the door opens for us to step through to see our true selves, we must not rely on the opinions of others. Growing up and changing ones views of the world around them is normal. What you and your family need to do is get together, away from the television and phone, like a day at a park, with picnic in hand, and have fun. No money involed, no phone ringing, no internet, no tv, nothing but you and your loved ones. Tell yourself your family, including your husband, are worth spending time with and getting to know all over again. Youmaybe pleasently surprised at how much you all need this time together. You will also see another side of you that has been waiting to come through that door of self awareness. Bring peace into your lives through sharing life, not running away from it.

June 26, 2000
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Run from this man on the internet. That's how I met mine. I love him very much, with all my being, but he is not who he professed to be. We wrote six or seven times a day, then he would call everynight for three hours. He is, in real life, extremely moody, secretive, distant, and confusing. At least most of the time. We do have good days, and he ALWAYS says he loves me and always will. The beautiful emails I received from him are poetry in motion. Most days after coming home he sits in his recliner watching tv and says very little. We only go to church together on Sunday's. I moved 1200 miles, let an 18 year career to be with him in the most beautiful part of the country, but the only time I explore it is when I get in the car and go by myself. IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT? Try to work with your husband, and if that can't be, work on yourself esteem, what you really want out of life, finding a career. Then you may be good for another relationship, but not now. It takes time and patience.

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