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May 29, 2002
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Sorry. This is a week late, but I had to bring in my computer to the shop and I just got it back today.

What is up with this site? I don't think I need to read half the posts here after reading some from the past few days. Holy crap.

Anyway, I went to the theater last Friday night. I waited in the lobby and outside but to no avail. She didn't show. I went to the shore with my friend on Saturday and I talked to him about what I was doing.

He has this grand idea that this is some weird Sleepless in Seatle situation and that I should do something drastic like plaster the neighborhood with a message asking her out. I'm not that desperate yet. I figure that I'm going to try my theater idea for two more weeks. If nothing comes of that, then I think I am going to have to step up my plans. Either I will start pounding the churches (which I still feel really awkward about) or I plaster the neighborhood with signs.

Hopefully it won't come to that but I need to do something.

In other news, I've been applying for jobs around town, but nobody is biting. Getting a job (not telemarketing) is hard as hell lately.

May 30, 2002
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Wouldn't do much good. She didn't seem that up to date on current events. I know that she doesn't have a TV. I'm not sure about newspapers. Hell... I've been looking for jobs all week and I still haven't looked at the personal ads.

That hardest thing about this whole situation is that we are both pretty much social losers. The only time we ever get out of the house is to go to the movies. At least that is what I have been led to believe.

May 30, 2002
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Good luck w/ your Mormon Girl, silence. So sad that you came back to the ruins of a proud and valuable site. I have heard rumors of war, but not seen any. In fact, Blondie says she's a fool for me and I have disagreed with her 3-4 times in the past 3-4 days! So, not all has been WWW (women's world war) III around here. 😉

May 30, 2002
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Wow, silence met a girl and I missed it? What thread is it on? See what happens when I go to the hospital, I miss the good stuff. Silence you can always go hang out at the mormon church, you'll find her there.

May 30, 2002
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YEah... sort of. I still managed to screw it up. I'll bring up the thread. It's called "fate slapping me in the face."

May 30, 2002
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Ok, go to the theater and ask the people who work there if they remember her and see when she comes in to the movies. leave her a note there with the employee, for them to pass along to her.

Mormon girls are not forward. I grew up mormon, but I was one of the few who rebel. She sat next to you and talked... she likes you. She was probably sad that you forgot to ask her number. She thinks about you whenever she goes to the movies now, she is wishing she will run into you there.

Mormon churches have alot of people that go, they are very welcoming. If you decide to look for her there, be prepared to stay a few hours, they are long meetings. Go to the church building that is closest to the theater, if you live in a big place they are more than one church I'm sure. If she lives close to the theater, she'll go to the one close to there. Wear slacks, or kackies, and a button up shirt, tie optional.

I hope you don't want sex from her, mormons are not like that. You will have to take things really slow with her. How old is she?

May 30, 2002
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Damn, you got me all excited for you. Kinda like that movie serandipity. I can't spell, but you get the point.

May 30, 2002
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Well, a major problem has to do with the fact that this is NJ here. NOthing but developments, shopping centers, and movie theaters. I'm hoping that she is a regular at my theater, but I have no real way of knowing. And I doubt any of the kids working at my theater would be able to recognize anybody that comes there. The theaters around here are all 12-16 theater multiplexes. It's a big business out here.

You don't have to worry about the sex thing. I've already found out that sex is not the first thing I'm looking for in a relationship. I think she said that she's 20, so there really isn't too much of an age difference.

And I'm sorry, but I just can't bring myself to start looking at churches. Even my friend feels that stalking the churches is creepy. And he should know, he's the master of jerking women around on a leash. Another reason I don't want to go to the churches is that I know I'm going to offend anybody who tries to convert me. Either that or they're going to ask me to leave when I tell them I'm trying to pick up a girl.

May 30, 2002
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Glad you're back, I was getting worried about you! And never mind what your friend feels, you're not HIM! All you have to do if someone tries to convert you is to smile and say that you're not sure you're ready to make that committment yet . . . surely you can do a little looking can't you? And don't take your friend - it got screwed up last time because of him so he's hardly the most perceptive of people is he?

May 30, 2002
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Sorry. Different friends. I know I make this confusing when I just refer to "my friend." In actuality I have two friends.

The first friend is one I've had since I was 12. He's just as nerdy as me. He's the one that just got a girlfriend last year and disappeared on me. I find out later that this girl doesn't like him to have any friends, so she hates me out of principle. She doesn't know me, but she refuses to be in the same room as me. Which explains what happened at the movies. That's the friend I took along to see the movie. I bought an extra ticket for his girlfriend, but she bailed at the last minute. Most likely because I was going to be there. This is one of the few times I have gotten to see my friend this year. Unfortunately I was trying to talk up this girl at the same time.

My other friend I met in college 3 years ago. He's the one who videotaped me getting beaten by a dominatrix. He's very manipulative and likes to blame everybody else but himself for all of life's problems. Several times I have been on the verge of telling him to go fuck himself. Unfortunately I still owe him $200, so I can't do it cleanly yet. I keep saying that the next time he insults me and my work I'm leaving. Why do I stay? Because he's just about the only person I do talk to these days. And we are trying to start up a business together. Unfortunately he seems to be dragging his feet on every opportunity, and then he blames me for it as if I'm the one not getting anything done. This is the friend who wants me to plaster the neighborhood. I know that he's thinking of some way to turn it to his advantage, but I haven't figured out what it is yet.

So I have two friends. Neither seems to be much help in this matter. I haven't been able to speak with my old friend since the movie, and the other one wants me to do this grand gesture that is almost impossible if you ask me. I live in a pretty big neighborhood.

Do all of you girls think that I should go to the churches? Because that never felt like a viable option to me.

May 31, 2002
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OK. It's Friday afternoon. In two hours I'm going to leave my house again for another night of waiting in front of the theater.

Tomorrow I'm going to go scrounging for a job in the afternoon, and then I'm going to go back in front of the theater at night.

Finally I can say that I have made plans for the weekend... I could just cry

May 31, 2002
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Well, another night of nothing. Literally. Almost nobody came to the theater tonight. I guess people don't want to see Undercover Brother or The Sum of All Fears. Not that I blame them. Brother looks lame, and Fears was a terrible book.

I'm determined to stick this out though. I made a commitment and damnit I'm going to stick to it.

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