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Update on loverbee--growing up and a little advice
April 28, 2007
3:52 pm
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Well, I found roommates that I will be living with in NYC when I move there in august. I wanted to know what people thought about this. My ex and I broke up a few months back but we are still the best of friends and still hang out. We have ended up sleeping together a few times and it was strange because it didn't affect our friendship at all. Well, We aren't back together because we decided that after six years together we needed a little space to grow up individually and see if it was really meant to be. We are both doing a very good job of that, and we are both graduating in May. In June, his mother decided that as a graduation present she was going to take my ex and his best friend (me) on the queen mary 2 cruise. It is a once in a lifetime opportunity and when we have been together since we broke up or even when we hang out as just friends, it hasn't been wierd. But some people are telling me that I shouldn't even be friends with him. Why do people assume that they know what is best for me and that they know exactly why we broke up or how I feel about it and how he feels about it and how do I handle these reactions?

April 28, 2007
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Loverbee...Congratulations for all your new beginnings. As for people's opinions, take them for their merits but then decide what you wanna do and what is best for you. I assume you shared with them some of your reasons for breaking up and some of your friends might be worried that you might get hurt. I imagine they are concerned about about you... All the best to you. Enjoy that cruise...make sure the two of you have good and clear boundaries. Thing can get intense on a cruise...you also might meet other people. So be prepared:)

April 28, 2007
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I know, and I am ok with that. We made up rules about what happens when it comes to other people. We have had a similar situation and the rules really helped to make sure no one got hurt. I think it will be fun.

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