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November 11, 2006
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So i have been feeling a bit better lately. Last night I took a train to NYC to see all my friends cause a bunch of them came in from out of town. Well, my ex bf was here which wasn't wierd at all because we have been working so hard at the friendship and that was a relief. He wanted to give me a place to stay so I wouldn't have to sleep on the couch but I told him I thought it was better if I didn't, but I appreciated the offer. Anyway, last night while I was here there was this guy who I was talking to (very cute) and when I was sitting on the couch, he put his arm around me. We spent the rest of the night chilling on my friend toms bed together (the bed is a makeshift couch) and it was in a very social setting, and he leaned in to kiss me at on point but stopped himself and said I kind of have a gf. I told him I didn't want to be the other woman and that I was on the rebound and just wanted to have fun tonight. I spent the rest of the night with my best guy friend and we caught eachother up on everything in our lives but it was strange, because even with this gorgeous guy paying me full attention, I just wanted to take care of myself and make sure I didn't do anything I regretted. I didn't drink at all so that I would stay perfectly lucid and just had fun. I am proud of myself. Anyway, I am going out tonight and that guy is going to be there. I hope things aren't wierd between us cause he was fun to talk to and we had a lot of things in common, but hey, I have no control right? Oh well.

November 11, 2006
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loverbee,

Sounds like a great evening yesterday. You definitely are taking care of yourself!! Good for you. Yes, you have a lot in common to talk about with this guy your just met, but he already said he has a girlfriend. Reality check. Last sentence you wrote about this guy, you said you have no control?? Were you joking, or miswritten?

Take care.

November 12, 2006
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No i meant, I can't help it if he has a girlfriend and I can't help that I am not the type of girl to be the other woman, I will never do that so in the end, nothing happened and I am glad that it didn't. The attention was nice but that was all it ended up being. I am kind of glad that I had time with all my friends to just bond and have them look out for me. It was nice.

November 12, 2006
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loverbee,

I thought something like that was what you meant. Thanks for clarifying. Hope things are going well today.

November 12, 2006
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Things are going really well. I had so much fun bonding more with all my guy friends and making some girl friends.

November 12, 2006
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Look at all the "gifts" you've recieve by just believing in you.
Stay strong...

November 13, 2006
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Thanks daeja,
It has been wierd because my ex bf said he missed me so much over the weekend. He said that for the first time in a long time, he realized how wonderful I was and said that he missed the connection we have because he doesn't get that connection with a lot of people. I told him of course that was going to happen because we were best friends but that he needed to be able to function without me and that he needed to give other people a chance to develop that connection with other people. He cried a lot and I told him that I would never disrespect him by making out with some random guy in front of him. I want to keep that friendship and I was only there this weekend because I wanted to hang out with my friends. I told him it was more about making sure that we had the ability to function without eachother than sleeping with other people. I just wanted him to realize that he was capable of cooking for himself and all that. I want to be with him eventually but only if it is really a healthy relationship. It was good though and I love him very much but I am proud that I stayed strong.

November 14, 2006
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Prayerfully that strenght will grow stronger, because you sound like your on the road to successful relationships. You give me hope...
Not only are you strong but you have your power back.
GO GIRL!!!!!!!

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