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Update from Hollie
September 14, 2005
2:14 am
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Hey guys,

It has been such a long time since I have visited this thread. It seems like a lot of the the posters that I used to read from are not here anymore.

Anyways, I came to this board in January this year, right after a break-up. This board has helped me a lot in recovering. (Peacefulsoul and KC30, do you guys still post here?)

Also erm, HSB, are you doing ok now?

I just got back from a 2 month business project in Australia and had the bestest time of my life ever. It was a much needed retreated. My ex is sooo soo ancient history right now.

If you are having problems getting over a guy, find KC30's posts on "No Contact" and "Fake it until you make it" back in like February. Seriously, everything turned out exactly like she said they would. 🙂

Also, I met the most wonderful guy while I was abroad. He has a girlfriend and we are simply friends, but he set an example for me on what I want to look for in a guy someday. I have never known that I could feel so comfortable around a guy in so short amount of time. Like a comfort that is so pure and healthy, and I am sure that it was mutual. ^_~ I am just so happy that I have met him, and it matters not what our relationship is.


Have you ever felt a deep, instant connection with someone where you feel like they understand you so perfectly although you have only known each other for a short time? Like when you are with them, you are just so happy and want to smile like an idiot...and you respect them so much and admire them in everyway possible.

It's so much more than the sense of comfort that you would feel with friends, but it is not sexual either...like it is almost too sacred to be sexual attraction. Maybe emotional/intellectual attraction? However, I know that I would take pleasure in whatever it is that we engaged in though, lol, including sex.

I wonder if this is what soul-mates feel like? Like a form of bond that is so natural/comfortable and deep that it need not even involve physcial/sexual attraction and it way surpasses just intellectual/emotional attraction as well.

Haha, it is kind of late right now and this post might be suffering from coherence issues, please excuse.

September 14, 2005
8:58 am
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hi Hollie, yes Kc is still here, just had her baby boy.

Glad to see you posting & things going better in your life.

Keep coming back!!!

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