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unsettled
July 31, 2009
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Unsetteled would be the best way to describe myself right now. I come here out of habit. Nothing really is going on in my life and I have been posting on others threads. I hope I have offered something. The other day on the "diet" thread someone said I was an inspiration. That made me feel good. I hope that someone around here is gaining somethng from what I post. I am telling myself daily that life is good. It isn't always great, but it is always good. I am stumbling along like everyone else. Do I have anything to offer anyone here or has my season here come and gone. I thing of Doris Day...she was here for just under a year, was "healed" and left. Ma Strong has been around for a while. There are others that I know have been here as long or longer than I have. I want to be able to give back, but I an not sure what I have to offer. I don't know if this makes any sense to anyone else... just what I am feeling on a Friday night...... My best to all of you!

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July 31, 2009
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bitsy, you give back so much!! yep the diet thread, you are tinier than me!! and i appreciate that, it makes me motivated to lose, lose, lose!!!

Think of all you went thru with R and here a year later, you are stronger and wiser....alot going on with your house and work and you have got through it all!! you are a strong woman.

I've probably been here longer than you, but i love this site, cuz i go thru the ups and downs, and more ups and downs of this Coda thing...I need this site, i need everyone here!!!

I think when everyone pitches in & gives feedback and tells us what works and doesn't work, it all helps, some of us have to learn the hard way, others not...its all an inspiration...and with that being said Bisty, you've been an inspiration to me!!!

((camer)))

July 31, 2009
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O yes Bitsy you certainly do give back. I am always quoting you on threads with your:

Recovery is being asked to give up all you know to get something better that you don’t yet understand………….

As Ma Strong would say, that’s fram- able!!!!!!

Not sure how long I have been here but you, ma, camer, sd are all inspirational to me. I do remember Doris Day she cracked me up and seemed so strong. Risingfromtheashes was also inspirational to me in so many ways.

People come and go so quickly around here it’s hard to keep up at times but I am glad I am here and sharing my journey with some pretty terrific people.

Atalose

~~Hope has a place, but not above reality~~

August 1, 2009
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Thanks for saying I am a strong woman. I used to be strongwilled and determined before R. Good to know that somehow I am back on the right path...now about me saying something quotable???? I still stick with "every day in every way I am getting better and better."

Bitsy

August 1, 2009
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hi. im only begining this journey. nice to hear that life does get better.youve given me hope thank you. darkeyes

August 1, 2009
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Amazing Bitsy, nothing is going on in your life? From reading the other threads, it's hard to believe that you think so!

August 1, 2009
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Darkeyes, that is what I want to do. Give hope. Lanigirl, I guess I am a peace and it is a new feeling for me. It has been a while. Let's see if I can loosely hold on to it for a while. You know you grasp something too tightly and it gets away from you.

Bitsy

August 1, 2009
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Bitsy you are giving hope. You helped me realize that i shouldnt kill myself because it can get better. You told me that "suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem". And you were right.

August 2, 2009
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mistrain, that one post makes it all worthwhile. I am so glad for you. Keep posting and sharing. Tell yourself that every day in every way you are getting better and better. That's what I do.

Bitsy

August 2, 2009
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Bitsy,

From reading another thread, it was mentioned that a new relationship was boring becuase there wasn't any drama happening.

For myself, I think that when there isn't any drama, I don't know quite what to do with myself.

Misty,

I had similar thoughts last year. Hold on, you know that there are sweet parts to life.

August 3, 2009
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Bitsy, you have helped me with your posts .A big thank you.

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