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Unsatisfied Curiousity?
October 20, 2001
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honesty
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False "DOGMAS" and years of Repression = Depression and Regression...... 7 years of my essential development has been stumped by these ailments. I am embarrassed to say, that i need to relearn The basics with proper awareness. Specifically in areas of physical and mental development. It is as if i slept through it all...I am not sure what happened, I don't knoww exactly what is normal and abnormal.
My search for Sex Education has made me feel perverted and embarassed. I have searched in numerous Science, Health, Art, Photography, and even children's Educational books. None of these various sources have helped me to understand. I desperately need to satisfy my curiousities...
I have had to resort to the pits of pornography, and that does not satisfy, it only makes things worse..
I think that i am looking for sex without having it. I am afraid of the whole intercourse, Thing, because I'm worried about staining the "Innocent Charm" my friends and family love me for. I also like the unique connection i have with children.
I need Intimate Love, but, when my virginity is gone it will be gone for good. When i lose it, i want share the experience with someone like me. Another Virgin so it would be special for both of us.....

October 20, 2001
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Please direct me to sources where I can learn things clearly and safely>

October 20, 2001
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Sex and education is not perverted- sex can be wonderful when it is right. If you want to remain a virgin until it feels right then that's it- end of discussion. The time will come. But it sounds like this has taken on a big part of your life- you seem a bit obsessed by the unknown. STep back- what are you really looking for? Intimacy? Or physical pleasure?
Ask people how they felt when they "lost" their virginity. Read "Our Bodies, Ourselves" if you are a woman. A Man- hum? That's a different story in our society.
Good luck

October 20, 2001
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Look for a good old (and I mean old) book...

Sex and everything you were afraid to ask...

or something like that.

It was strictly questions and answers to even the most basic quetions.

It was out in the early '70's.

You don't think ppornography will stain the "innocent charm" you feel you have?

I think it will stain you quicker than just going out and doing the dirty deed for love.

Pornography is the use of another person for sex....without their permission.

Finding a lover....is a mutual thing.

SEX will stain you.... HONEST LOVE will not.

Yes...there is a differecne

November 4, 2001
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i relate!!and learn through pretend.....

November 27, 2001
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To BlondieNYC
I do not appreciate you treating me like a pedophile.
The very reason i love children is because their minds do not seem to be clouded by sexual issues. I have no desire to spoil that trait. In fact I desire a state of mind where sexuality is not my issue. I feel if my curiousities are satisfied I will know that Peace of Mind. When I mentioned i am unsure of what is normal and abnormal, I was refferring to sexual development.
I do not act like a child. Most people who have met me see me as a serious, quiet, intellectual. My friends consider me to be nieve on things sexual in nature. That is, what they call an "innocent charm".
The "unique connection" i have with children reffers to other areas of my personality. Such as the elements of adventure, exploration, and fantasy.
I have no degree, I just enjoy contemplation of spiritual and psychological phenominon. Lately that focus has been disrupted by sexual issues, which is why i seek understanding.

November 27, 2001
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honesty I am very suprised that your virginty wasn't taken away from you at a very young age like many of us people in the world today. And if it wasn't taken away at the age of three, some ass hole in high school sure the fuc$ made sure they took it from me.

November 28, 2001
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Blondie !!!!!! I think we are on the right track !!!!!!!!!! philter

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