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February 25, 2003
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my boyfriend is always wanting to have sex without a condom, i keep telling him that i dont want to, but he says he loves it so much. in the end, i let him, i know its bad, how if i try to tell him i dont want to do it without one, he goes and sulks and puts his puppy dog face on, how can i tell him that i dont want to do it without one anymore?

February 25, 2003
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DEMAND IT!!! or NO nookie for cookie. END OF DISCUSSION!!

February 25, 2003
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hah thanx Jadedragon

February 26, 2003
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I was taught and I believe it, that sulking is an unhealthy manipulation we learn aimed to control others by their fear of abandonment and their fear of conflict. By maintaining your boundaries and insisting in not having sex without a condom (or in finding other alternative solutions together) you would also be helping your relationship heal from this unfortunate dynamic of sulking / control. The value of your keeping your boundaries is double here...

Just my opinion.

February 26, 2003
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It's worked for him before so he knows you will give in.

Be strong...it's your body!!! You are responsible for it. If he cares and respects you then he will expect your decision to be safe.

Good for you!!!!!!!!!

February 26, 2003
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thanks heaps everyone. ill stand up 4 myself or its no sex 4 him!

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