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unhealthy thought gone
September 8, 2006
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Have you ever wanted to do something that was just stupid. I was sitting in my office today and thought of my old boss. I was sitting here looking down at my lap thinking and noticed I could see cleavage, thats when I thought of my boss. And as i was thinking I got really pissed off. I thought about sending him an email telling him I was wearing a blouse that if I just popped one button there would be a really nice view. Thats a sick thought I know, but maybe a part of me is thinking his boss will see the email and he will be watched or he will feel guilty.

I know I never made any complaints or did anything formal but after I left the job I just realized how much sexual harrassment I put up with from him. Perverted old man. Thing is I really liked my boss. He was great to work with and work for. He valued my work and my input and had more faith in my abilities than I did, so why did he have to do that crap. Was it all hoping that I would sleep with him? One time we went to a business meeting in another town. Before we left I told him I was nervous (going to meet with big wigs) he said dont be nervous just sit there and look pretty. Another time big wigs came to see us and he said tomorrow if you want to wear a dress or skirt that would be great and maybe pop that top button open, then maybe they wont notice any mistakes we have. He would always follow it with just kidding, but really it was too much. At lunches with the big wigs they would discuss sex and he would talk about how great I was for putting up with them.

September 9, 2006
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Thats sexual harassment, and of course everyone has had stupid unhealthy thoughts in their healing, but thankfully most of us don't follow them through. I'm glad you didn't. sounds like you've got some anger in your belly though...I suffer with the same anger time to time about my ex. Its what happens when all the nice memories are wiped out...you are just left with the bad stuff and its bound to lead to resentment. So, perhaps go and talk to someone about how angry your are feeling...get that anger out so that you are able to move on.

Rev.

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